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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

no they just closed the api for 3rd party apps. I wasn't going to use their shitty app. the official app was literally the worst of all of them so this was the only way they were going to get users but fuck that. I don't need reddit.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

banned

decided to finally try the alternative

So far, mostly better, though I did come across one batch of people that are as dumb as the average redditor

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don't think I'm banned. I left with the API Exodus. I do like Lemmy more now because of more free speech and control over what information I see

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

Well I’m queer, and apparently the ceo is MAGAt

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

I was on Reddit from mid 2012 to mid 2023, across a few accounts and with a hiatus of a few months here and there. I had been passively looking at less centralized forms of personal interaction on the web, trying to find traditional forums to replace the subs I frequented. Like a lot of people here, the API issues and the news of Reddit courting investors left a bad taste in my mouth.

I deleted my account, but I still lurk on a few subs, and my IT job means I have to dig through reddit posts on a regular basis for troubleshooting purposes.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

Not banned, was never active. Just lurked on certain subreddits. I've engaged way more here than I ever did there

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Just like lemmy more.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I was banned off reddit doing to standing up to the r/seculartalk mod Liam and him throwing a little bitchy fit when I used my alts to warn users he was banning them for disagreeing with them. The site then banned me for circumventing his sub ban.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I was never banned and I never really wrote any comments

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Permabanned but I do like it here

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The only thing is I hope it grows so there is more non political content.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah that would great

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

On average I think I end up spending more time on reddit, but I contribute to and like this community a lot more.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Lemmy is going to the local store and Reddit is going to the mall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I got a new account after my old one got banned but now I never challenge the echo chamber. I just ban/block obnoxious subs and users to avoid the temptation. I stay mainly for some interest groups there and local subs.

Saw one mod in a sub bragging about how they banned lots of users for challenging a post and they were getting cheered on. Wonder if that is in line with reddit's policy?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How can you circumvent a reddit ban?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

You don't, you wait it out until they stop blocking that IP or email. New account.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Okay cool. Is that about a year or two for them to stop blocking it?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I’ve never been banned from Reddit even temporarily, I just like Lemmy more

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Same; haven't looked at reddit since I came here (other than the occasional search engine question where a reddit thread has the info)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I find it super funny honestly, because I left Reddit because of shit moderation and a gross bias toward liberal posts in the moderation (ironic now). Then I come here to escape, which I'm realizing is a very liberal a platform, and I'm noticing that it wasn't that it was leftist leaning, the people were just insufferable.

I routinely find things in common with people across the aisle here and the content is way more objective.

I never got perma banned, but I was silenced enough to know that it wasn't good for my mental health to stay. Lemmy is great. I think this is a platform where people can actually just meet in the middle and talk. I got banned from Mastadon on my first day, so it was a no go.

But banana bread, at fucking work bro? HELL. YEAH.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I'm still using both, but I'm sure with the changes in administration I'll be getting banned soon. I already got a warning for saying that self-declared kings are liable to self-declared regicide

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I just like lemmy more. I still visit reddit irregularly, like every few days.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I'm permanently banned from Reddit. I don't like Lemmy nearly as much, but it's probably just that I'm less familiar and haven't figured it all out. Finding subs that I liked in Reddit was much easier, but there's the obvious moderator issues with Reddit - mainly that I'm banned.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I don't get the problem with being banned. I used to create a new reddit account when I thought of a new username I liked. DGAF about karma so I just threw accounts away. On one occasion I did get banned and just created a new account, no big deal. If you want to go back just go back.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They ip ban you if you do that because they consider it ban evasion I believe

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

If you turn your internet router off and on, it should be assigned a new IP address by your ISP. That's how mine works anyway. This is why dynamic DNS services exist, so you can host things at home even though you don't have a static IP address.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

They'll still identify your device with many other data points available to them. Or at least they seem to be with me, even with VPNs and alternate browsers.

My modem doesn't get a new external IP on reboot, either. None of mine ever have, that I can recall

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

i agree, my ban is also a clear example of their bad moderation ong πŸ™

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Technically I’m still on it. I just stopped interacting there. Might post on some of the niche crafting subreddits sometimes in the future because I miss those on here. For everything else Lemmy is far superior. Decided to β€œswitch over” when I found out that half of my comments and posts got shadowbanned.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Both of those facts can exist at the same time. I believe I am partly banned from some Subs if only because I disagreed with the Reddit Hivemind and the Mods crazy power trips.

Lemmy is 1000% more open minded.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

When Reddit changed the layout (new/old) some ten years ago, I started using a 3rd party app, because "new reddit" was everything that I hated about other sites. I stopped using it when they killed 3rd party apps, but that was really just the final nail in the coffin anyway. It was rotten to the core long before that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah I still use Old Reddit when I go there.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

Found Lemmy during the API protest and ditched reddit. I've been meaning to go back to reddit and get banned over the whole crazy censorship thing, but haven't gotten around to it yet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I've had accounts shadow banned due to VPN. I've had more accounts banned from subs due to annoying mods. I'm still on reddit, but I really do prefer the non-corporate/non-VC-backed social media

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I just prefer Lemmy. I started exploring Lemmy about 6 months before the API fiasco. The content on Lemmy has just kept improving since.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Yes I'm permanently fingerprint/IP banned as of last year.

I posted anti-Isreal comments on one of the largest default subreddits, which perma banned me. Whenever I browsed through the front page and commented in that subreddit on my other accounts because I forgot I was banned there, all of my accounts were banned for ban evasion. This happened twice and then I was perma-ed.

For context I used and contributed to the site regularly since Digg without much issue or any bans

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

I think so? I used to browse the site over breakfast, and one morning, Apollo couldn't connect. I don't want to cause trouble by trying to log in, if I'm banned, so I have not tried to log in another way.

🀭

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I have already saved subreddits I liked on bookmarks, but after so many suspensions and bans for literally stupid reasons I had enough of this cesspool which is reddit and surprisingly I feel a lot better, I think reddit takes way more than it gives to anyone, I use lemmy moderately and that's the way things should be with anything, not sure I will ever get back on reddit again

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

No, but I'm banned from:

  • r/republican for asking if they have ever heard about besieged fortress syndrome
  • r/twoXchromosomes for telling a mod that she's bullying a person who disagreed with her in a discussion about abuse - like an abuser would (the mod was trying to rally other people into joining her into cyberbulling)
  • r/menslib for writing that being a victim is not an excuse in a thread about a 20-something yo woman grooming young girls into porn (she herself too was groomed).
  • some political ones for "hate speech against Russians" - for cursing them and their invasion of Ukraine.
[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I am banned from worldnews because I called Israel an ethno-centric kapo state.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago

Just left during the API thing. I've rarely been back, mostly to the subreddits for games I play (unfortunately still the best communities for them) but I used to spend hours a day there, and now it's minutes a month if that much.

Never banned or even shadowbanned as far as I know.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

I got a bullshit warning about harassment on a 5 day old post that said "Don't be a jerk to people you don't know and you won't have that problem" Appealed it and got told it it was harassment.
Fuck reddit.
I'm slowly going through my posting history and editing anything useful to the AI training to be nonsense.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I've been banned for saying pro luigi or similar stuff, but since I am not attached to my account I just make a new one. The most annoying part of getting banned is just resubbing to your preferred subreddits. I prefer lemmy now days anyway and it is nice to see familiar usernames now and then and I don't get as annoyed seeing constant liberalism. I still use Reddit for some things like really niche subjects, questions, or hobbies and people can be genuinely helpful in some subreddits ngl.

I also find the moderation here to be much fairer and more protective of vulnerable groups.

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