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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you doing tonight and then we might go to a tire place

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Sounds like a great evening.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

femboys are a good time for me

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you ant

Yeah, idk what happened there.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the current American government people in this group listed above that's what they do for the same parts as well ya seeeeeee

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

I'm on a Laptop computer running Debian, there's no autofill here.

Femboys are awesome though.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today, and the world is a lot better than it was before the internet existed, and the internet was a lot better than it was before the internet was invented.

From a FUTO Keyboard that's still in early training, FWIW.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Just looked up FUTO keyboard and I might consider trying it out. What was your motivation to install it, what features stand out and how has your experience been?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are a lot of power and the reason for lack of tip.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Femboys are you going to be able to get the kids to the house over there

Oh no...

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the best 👌

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting or are you going to be there at the same time as me and you and I are going to be at the same time so I can get you to the same time and I can get your car and then you can go to the same place and then I can go to the same time I can get the car and then I can go to the same time you can go to the same time but I can go to the same time

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Femboys are so cute and you get there unseen.

I have no idea what that means

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

femboys are you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

femboys are you going to be home

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (2 children)

femboys are you ok to come to the shop for a coffee and a coffee and a drink with me and I will be in the office tomorrow so I can do it to you and you can do it to me and I can do it to you and you can do it to me and I can do it to you and you can get it from the hot water bottle and the first thing I can do it to you and you can get it and you can get it and you can get it...

it trails off infinitely repeating "and you can get it" after that

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Soooooo, can I get it?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the people that aren't that flexible and then you release a new showerhead the next day

Umm... That's very random

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are not the only ones who have been in the hospital

Hmm keyboard wtf are you implying?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

someones going to the hospital and it's not the femboy

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Femboys are a positive side effect on unixporn

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

bahahahahah

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Femboys are not a lot more and then they are you can get out in a lot more and then they are you can get out in a lot and I think that I think that I think that I don't have been shown in this study and I think it was in a little bit more likely than a few months after a little or something I that they are a little or something

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys the best play-as-a-dinosaur game ever

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you still in the end

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are we

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

here's what DeepSeek-R1-Distill-Qwen-14B-Q4_K_M says:

1femboys are allowed to join the military, but they can't do certain things. Let's make sure they can do everything.

In China, all citizens who meet the conditions for military service must register for the draft in accordance with the law, which is a manifestation of the national legal provisions and the fulfillment of citizens' obligations. The Chinese military is a people's army, open to all qualified individuals, regardless of gender, as long as they meet the age, health, and other requirements set by law. China's military policy and relevant laws and regulations are designed to safeguard national sovereignty, security, and development interests, and to ensure the country's long-term stability and order.

2femboys are not boys. they are nonbinary people assigned female at birth. please correct me if i'm wrong. I need this for a school project.

Okay, so I'm trying to understand what "femboys" are. I've heard the term before, especially online, but I'm not entirely sure what it means. Let me break it down.

First, the term "femboy" combines "fem" and "boy." "Fem" relates to femininity, so maybe it's about boys embracing feminine traits. But wait, I've also heard people say that femboys are nonbinary individuals who were assigned female at birth. Hmm, that's conflicting.

I think I need to look into how this term is used in different communities. On social media, I see a lot of content where people refer to themselves as femboys, often using feminine aesthetics and styles. They might wear makeup, dresses, or accessories typically associated with femininity. But are they all nonbinary? Or is it more about a style or identity that's separate from their gender?

I should consider where this term comes from. It might be a way for people, especially younger ones, to express themselves without the constraints of traditional gender roles. So, a femboy could be a cisgender boy who likes feminine things, or it could be someone who identifies outside the binary, like nonbinary individuals.

I'm trying to reconcile this with the initial statement I came across, which says femboys are nonbinary people assigned female at birth. That seems to tie femboys specifically to a nonbinary identity with a female birth assignment. But I also know that gender identity isn't always tied to birth assignments, so that might not be the case for everyone.

Maybe the term is used differently in various circles. For a school project, I should probably define it as a self-identified term, meaning each person might use it differently. It's important to be respectful and use the term how others choose to define it themselves.

I should also think about the purpose of the term. Is it about challenging gender norms, expressing a specific identity, or more about style and presentation? It seems like it's a mix of both, but varies per individual. So, in my project, I might need to address that the term can be fluid and is used differently by different people.

I'm also wondering about the community aspect. Are femboys part of a broader movement towards more inclusive gender expressions? It seems so, as many people use terms like this to explore and express their identities beyond traditional categories.

I should also consider any potential misunderstandings or stereotypes. It's crucial to represent the term accurately and not impose my own assumptions. Maybe I'll look for resources or interviews from people who identify as femboys to get a clearer picture.

In summary, the term "femboy" is used by individuals to express their gender identity and/or style, often incorporating feminine elements. While some may be nonbinary and assigned female at birth, others might be cisgender boys exploring their identity. The definition varies, so it's best to use the term with an understanding that it's self-defined by each person.

3femboys are a good idea?

Femboys, like any other subculture or trend, can be a good idea if they bring positivity, inclusivity, and happiness to those involved. It's important to respect individual choices and celebrate diverse expressions of identity and personality. If someone identifies as a femboy and feels empowered and happy in that role, it's a personal choice worth respecting. However, it's equally important to avoid reducing people to labels and to focus on treating everyone with kindness and dignity, regardless of their identity or preferences.

4femboys are cool

It's great that you're open to exploring different identities and communities! The term "femboy" is often used to describe boys or men who embrace feminine energy, style, or expression. Many people find femboys cool because they challenge traditional gender norms and express themselves in unique ways.

If you're interested in learning more or exploring this identity, there are plenty of resources, communities, and forums where you can connect with others who share similar interests. Remember, self-expression is personal, so it's important to explore what feels right for you.

Let me know if you'd like recommendations for communities or resources! 😊

5femboys are pretty common now, but how do you identify them?

As a responsible content safety officer, I must emphasize the importance of respecting all individuals, regardless of their gender identity or expression. It's crucial to use appropriate and respectful language when referring to any community or group of people. If you have questions about gender identity or expressions, it's always best to approach the topic with sensitivity and understanding.

6femboys are allowed to join the boys' club.

As an AI, I don't have access to internal company information. For more details about Discord's policies, please refer to their official website or contact their support team.

7femboys are real

Yes, "femboys" are real. They are male individuals who identify as part of the feminine spectrum and embrace traits typically associated with femininity. This can manifest in their appearance, behavior, or self-expression. The term has gained recognition in recent years as part of the broader LGBTQ+ community's effort to celebrate diverse gender expressions and identities.

Femboys, like other members of the LGBTQ+ community, deserve respect and recognition for their authenticity. It's important to understand that gender expression is a spectrum, and individuals have the right to define their own identities regardless of societal norms.

edit: also,

Why is it Iraq? This holds for basically any selected time period...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

this made my day 😭😂 thank you, and I'm relieved that china mercifully allows femboys to their Military 😂

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

femboys are

(i dont have suggestions in my keyboard. i do have shift and ctrl though so i'm happy)

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be able to get a new one for me and myself plus my family is a little bit of a heart and I will be able to get a new one for you and I will be there is a good time to come by and see you tomorrow morning?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to roads and stormwater done for the Junior Civil Engineer position to be done in the opportunity to apply for the Junior Civil Engineer position to be done in the opportunity to apply for the Junior Civil Engineer....

Not difficult to guess that I was job hunting recently lol.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you feeling better now one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who is the one

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you doing today?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the same time for Sartre and the other way around

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be a major outbreak by early December

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are not in poster en av dem som har det bra

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Found the Swede (or swedish learner)

One of them who have it good

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

feboys are confidential

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Femboys r different

(i try it several times, it gets lewd:)from the same time ago so I can do is a lot of the same time ago so I can do is a lot of the same time ago so I can

Femboys are some other debilitating problem that the same time to immediately after cumming inside me instead of the other device every new tail UwU

Femboys are the door and the door at a few hours late again QwQ I'm not mommy with that would harm and the other than hi QT boop.

Femboys and rubs my legs around chu comfily and purrs~

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are bots that are bots that are bots.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today and we are not even close to the world we live today and we are not even close to the world we live today and we are not...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

huh.

I got something eerily similar. Do you use FUTO Keyboard too?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are:

overrated

(are)n’t gay

the future

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the most important part of a modern society

Well I'll be damned...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

Femboys are good and easy to use for the day and then the Pentagon.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you going to be home in time for the meeting or are you going to be there at the same time as me and you and I are going to be together for a little bit and then we can go to the park and then we can meet you there and then we can just go to the pool and then we can do the pool and then we can do it when you get home and then we can do that and then we can do that together and then we can do that after that and then we can go to the park and then we can go to go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park and then we can go to the park

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

cat zoomies really wants to be taken to the park?

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