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[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Just cross check souces before acting.

And write down who said what. Then you can check later and eliminate the bad sources.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Pay attention, but take it with a grain of salt. If you're in a bottom tax bracket, no one in power in govt cares about you. And that's with both major parties and the minor parties

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

I think that you can and should tune it out when it feels overwhelming. You terrifying yourself about things you can't change isn't helpful. What's helpful is that, whether you've watched the news today or not, possessing a willingness to do small bits of good in your immediate neighborhood.

Be willing to hold a door open for someone, or push a car out of an icy parking space, or shovel someone's sidewalk for free, etc. etc. etc.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Ignore it! Especially when a Disaster hits your Area and FEMA doesnt Exist!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

"it's gotten very political" says someone who had to be sentient through the covid pandemic. i just can't anymore y'all.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

You do you. Just keep up the fight for the good. I'd say it's also fine to plant a few sunflowers next to the local playground and clean up the litter, or make your community a better place for the people. In turn you'd ignore national level politics and world news. I don't think everyone needs to do that kind of politics. Just do something nice, something you're good at and it'll be alright and be of use to someone.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 4 days ago

If you "don't do politics", politics will do you. You don't need to be the one to single-handedly fix everything, but please do what you can. We need everyone.

[–] [email protected] 68 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Worth noting that iirc the lorax doesn't actually do anything except speak up for those who needed help and protection. He didn't win immediately but his efforts weren't in vain. The lorax (or at least the movie?) shows you many ways you can be a part of changing the world. You dont have to be Ted, you don't have to be the Lorax, you don't have to be granny norma, or Ted's love interest, or the people who spoke up first when Ted planted the tree. All of these people made the world better with their own contribution. You should consider it, though.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 days ago

The Lorax failed as every single Truffula tree was felled. Then the person who destroyed everything passed the work of rebuilding off to someone else.

It is a great story as a warning, but a terrible example of avoiding destruction.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago

If you don't turn on to policies, politics will turn on you. - Ralph Nader

[–] [email protected] 175 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Your mental health comes first but always remember that pretending it doesn’t exist is different from protecting your sanity. It’s a tougher needle to thread than you think!

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Part of it is a war on information and memory, so it is important to stay aware. With the American Civil War, almost immediately after it was over they began rewriting history (the Lost Cause).

There’s a historical debate about the extent of which German civilians were aware of the Holocaust. I found Hitler’s Willing Executioners convincing myself. I think people knew what was happening in the camps, but allowed themselves an out - plausible deniability. (And again, the war on memory - that the deaths were all typhus, or the numbers were exaggerated)

I’ve already been living as an oppressed minority in a state that had already started implementing Project 2025 before Trump was even elected. The one thing that’s hardest to deal with is the gaslighting. I’ve just wanted to be seen.

I don’t think they’ll put trans people in death camps, but I believe they are planning on weaponizing the mental health system against trans people. Forcible institutionalization for most AFAB at least. Trans women they might declare sex criminals and use the increased powers of capital punishment on - we’ve seen moves towards this in Florida. I think it’d be like Nazi’s and the original eugenics program - some trans people do have families who might protest if a bunch of us disappear.

I do believe they will start killing immigrants. Texas has volunteered land for this purpose, and if they are already placing barbed wire along the Rio Grande, they are willing to kill.

So how does this knowledge help? What is the point of keeping up with the fear and terror?

Perhaps to try to help the lesson stick this time. To keep screaming that this is not normal. To ensure that when it is all over, there won’t be “it was all about states rights!” That we saw this coming, that we kept saying it was coming, but America was too scared of a black woman in power and too obsessed with trans women’s penises to say “no” to Stupid Hitler.

You can stay aware to know where small places of action are - can you print out cards with information on what to do when ICE arrives and leave them in places? You can stock up on mifepristone or estrogen if you have friends who might need it. Find local mutual aid networks and pitch in. Provide emotional support to your queer/immigrant/woman friends. Tell children that this is not normal, this is not the America we grew up in.

Action is how to combat trauma. It’s the feeling of helplessness that “causes” PTSD - a situation where you know that nothing you do has an impact on the outcome. Mental health under fascism is learning what you can do, and focusing on that.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Really minor side note. I don't think comparisons of Trump to Hitler really help that much, there's too many differences between the two men. What I think helps much more overall is comparisons of Trump to Benito Mussolini, who he much more closely aligns with, and who predated Hitler in the interwar period as a fascist dictator. The term fascist is originally an Italian word, even.

Mussolini comparisons capture Trump's smallness and bumbling nature while still highlighting his ability to do great harm much more accurately. Trump is an American Mussolini.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

If you don't plan to help at all then yes, might as well stick your head in the sand. It doesn't matter if you pay attention or not if you don't offer any form of resistance. Indifference is the default response for a significant portion of Americans and it's a huge part of the problem.

The deck is stacked against us, no doubt. But we can look to historical examples of what happens if you don't fight Nazis coming into power, and I refuse to be one of those examples.

There really are only two pragmatic options at this point. Fight or leave. Anything else is a waste.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (3 children)

You hurt your own cause by being so willing to make everything black and white.

I want people who fight for good by cooking meals to do that and understand they are having an impact.

I want teachers who will not lie to their students.

I want religious leaders who will point out the hypocrisy of those using religion to divide.

None of those things are "fighting." All of them, and many more, are important.

If you feel like violent resistance is what you are good at and what is needed, I encourage you to think about all the other forms of resistance necessary for any violent campaign to produce long-lasting positive results and perhaps reconsider how quick you are to dismiss others and if that is truly helpful for your cause.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Tune it out. I went all in last time. It’s not worth it for your mental health

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

It's okay. We can take turns being vigilant, as each of our mental health allows.

Our billionaire overlords are incredibly powerful, but there's a shit ton more of the rest of us, than there are of them, even counting their many paid cronies.

The billionaires are also the ones pushing the around the clock burn out news cycle, to wear us down.

Take time for your mental health, and trust random folks like me to be vigilant while you rest.

They want us to forget that we're in this together.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Same. The mental health damage isn't worth paying attention

[–] [email protected] 31 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I’m genuinely worried it’s yet another deliberate denial of service against our ability to detect evil. I work extra hard to only pay attention to what is actually done that seems like it could stick.

Mostly I trust that good people in positions of trust (e.g. ACLU or EFF) will call out when there’s an opportunity for mass mobilization to make a real difference.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Didn’t ACLU support Citizens United?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yes, but what-abouting them right now goes against the greater good. And since they realize their mistake and hopefully won't repeat it, we shouldn't give up on them.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

This is a great point. If we only have bandwidth to listen to a single news source, we could all do worse than choosing the ACLU or the Electronic Frontier Foundation!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago

Personally, I'm tunning it out. The only time I dive into it is around elections so I can make an informed vote. But, after that it seems like I'm utterly powerless to change anything.

I used to think being informed would come in handy to change people's minds, but that never happens. People have to change their own minds.

See also: https://lemmy.today/post/22524765

[–] [email protected] 101 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Depends. Are you a rich, white, straight male? You will be fine and can ignore everything. But if you are any shade of brown, an immigrant or belong to any minority group or are female or have loved ones belonging to anyone of these groups, then you should pay attention as they might genuinely be in danger.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I keep hearing this "if you're a straight, white male, you'll be fine." I'm a straight "white passing" male (half Cuban, with no Latin origin names).

When people say this, I ask, "what about my friends? What about my family? What about the people I love?" Does that not affect me? Are we supposed to ignore their plight?

I don't see what we can do to combat Trump short of organizing and fighting back. We all know how good the left are at that.

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[–] [email protected] 68 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Are you a rich, white, straight male?

Good list. Need to add "healthy" to it, too.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 days ago

Before they started killing Jews it was the disabled

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Eh, if you are rich you can travel and get socialized medical care in a real country

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago

If the US keeps its current direction of antagonizing any place that isn't a dictatorial shithole, the OP's freedom to travel can get restricted very soon.

[–] [email protected] 31 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Somewhat redundant. He already said "rich."

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