this post was submitted on 17 May 2025
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Your anecdotal experience doesn't have anything to do with this if you weren't traumatized at a young age.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (2 children)

My parents were divorced when I was about 2? Not "trauma" maybe, but you'd think it might be something I might remember. I dunno.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Trauma doesn't always come with memories. You might have some form of PTSD response to the stressors the divorce caused.

Significant trauma are frequently suppressed in memory.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

Could be that, too. I have a great relationship with both my parents though so I doubt it's PTSD in my particular case. Or at the very least I've had great support in subconsciously dealing with it, if anything. But still, yes!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Makes sense, if I don't remember it. But maybe it was just a calm separation.