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I'm saying there's like 4 like minded people and we all already know each other. My mom's retired so she has time to volunteer at the local food pantry. The vast majority of people who come in are chuds who gloat to the volunteers about all the great stuff trumps doing because they know my mom and the other women who volunteer are all liberals.
I'm saying your strategy of not being realistic about how much of an impedance the slack jawwed local contingent is gonna be is flawed.
They're the one holding us back, as has been true for the entirety of this country, and saying it's not their fault that they are like this is a fundamental failure in planning.
It sucks but we've got to accept "if we just help these people improve their lives they'll come around" is literally not true. I live in upstate new york surrounded by people that would either freeze or starve to death in the winter if it weren't for state run organizations. They also all have giant flags on their homes and vehicles making it very clear they want to get rid of those programs because they dont like all the lazy undeserving people taking advantage of the programs that keep them alive.
i feel youre not really hearing me. for a change of pace, would you kindly tell me your strategy?