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I do this always. It's the "I'm not a threat" thing. I prefer the discomfort or personal inconvenience to being seen as a threat or even causing anxiety in that direction. Maybe it makes no difference, that's fine, maybe they think I'm weird, also fine as long as it has the intended effect of getting across that I am not a threat. It's worth it for the times it does matter.
I feel that. I've had it a few times where a girl is walking in front same speed and direction for like 5 turns. I've had to go completely the wrong way before and make myself late for fear she'll phone the police that she's being followed.
She'd be justified in the fear, I'd be nervous if I were them, I just hate that that's the world we're in.
I always do this too, and for this exact reason