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[–] [email protected] 39 points 2 days ago (3 children)

My parents just stopped watching the news about anything and just sit thinking everything will be okay. Its starting to get difficult to have a relationship with them because they are so out of touch with reality. They even go to protests but for them its just a thing to go do because they're not doing anything else. They have zero understanding of any of the reasons they're happening other than trump bad.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

lol, the other day my Boomer Dad said, "Everything will work out. You have to think positively."

Based on WHAT? Nothing has "just worked out" for at least 25 years.

As a cohort, Boomers ushered in this paradigm, and remain completely oblivious to the world. I will probably never stop heaping culpability at their feet.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

In effect the relative lack of news back in the day was how people could feel optimistic, at least in the US and Western Europe. We could be pretty oblivious and happy about USSR going away and all seemed just fine because the news barely covered the bad stuff and the Internet was barely a thing and we didn't get a whole lot of global exposure.

Things can get better and we have to work at it, but we don't need to be hopeless. If we can't believe good things can happen, then what would be the point anyway...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Exactly, in times of doom, you have to believe and hope, much more than ever before.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

If we can't believe good things can happen, then what would be the point anyway...

Two things:

  1. Being kind to others, making their lives a bit less painful and hopefully a bit more joyful.
  2. Spite. Opting out would be making the lives of the bastards who are inflicting the bullshit on the rest of us too easy.

I don't expect things to get better within my lifetime and I'm not yet 40. All that I've witnessed in my lifetime is an accelerating decline in financial stability for people who work for a living and continual degradation of the quality of basic goods that people are able to afford.

I managed to not get totally fucked during the pandemic after having been set back probably about a decade and a half by The Recession. Now, my field is getting hit by regular layoffs that don't actually benefit anyone but make the line go up. Shit is not looking good in the near future.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Idk man, I’d kill just to have mine agree on the trump bad part. You do you, but tuning out our shit news cycle is low on the offense scale for me. It can be much worse.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

My Mom is so disappointed that my kids are not active, do not goto protests. She wants to leave a better world for them but is no longer able to help make that happen, so needs to see her grandchildren turn the world around.