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Hexbear late bloomers: Anyone have a super impactful relationship you still have trouble getting over? (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I met someone on discord last year, and I don’t quite have the words to describe the lead up. One minute we were gaming and the next minute I was in their apartment 1200 miles away, but like I said, the feelings were unreal and I can’t imagine ever finding anything like it again. Ngl a part of me feels like it will forever be pretty empty. Didn’t really scratch the surface of how much it meant to me but yeah, sometimes it’s hard to ever imagine moving on. Sucks

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I was hung up on someone for like ten years, but there was eventually a sharp dropoff in hung-up-ness. It was surprising to me that it happened, it felt like it was going to be a life-long thing. Living your life is the best thing you can do.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Did the sharp dropoff just happen one day out of the blue? Sort of just get lost in the pile of your other responsibilities?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

It wasn't a single day, but maybe over the course of a few months. So probably the latter.