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hm, I don't see a way I could tuck comfortably for a hike. I get rashes on my skin if I even just wear my bra too long after a run, so this might be more a me problem. I can't wear closed-toed shoes longer than a few hours without risking a rash. Same with underwear, I have found it causes rashes on my lower back if I wear it all day, though women's underwear tends to be better for this - I don't think it would be when sweating and being active.
Another difference with me: I have had an orchi and my genitals were small to start with and don't really move around much. I don't love the remaining scrotum and sometimes it can give me a sickening dysphoria if it slaps against a thigh (🤢), but it's not as problematic as before.
So, I generally don't wear any underwear when I run or hike, etc.
I guess when it's cold enough I do wear leggings that have a mild tucking effect, but maybe not enough for girlies with larger bits.