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Lemmy users are too negative towards each other (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I don't know if my experience is rare on this platform but I can't count the times I've either been a target or someone is being a target of another out to grind their axe. It gets quite old and annoying fast.

Like, damn, if I'm saying something at least listen to what I mean before you attack. Why is it so hard to give people the benefit of the doubt or ask clarifying questions first, or argue back in good faith? This place is still full of folks with similar values to be assuming shit.

And, sadly, it's not even restricted to political communities. I find it everywhere creating pointless arguments for no reason.

Ngl, Lemmy is kinda toxic. Someone else just posted about the site being gloomy but I think it's more than that.

(Yes, I do block and try not to engage, but I'm only human. Etc.)

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I find it everywhere creating pointless arguments for no reason.

The problem could be you're creating pointless arguments (for no reason). Such as this entire thread.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

for no reason

So what am I arguing about then?

Such as this entire thread

Sorry for venting, I guess?

Mind you, you're coming at this with quite the aggressive energy. You sure you're not in this picture and you do not like it?