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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Wouldn't the easy way out of that issue be to either seek out gay men or men who are in a relationship?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago

As a man I kind of do the opposite, most of the girls I hang with are lesbian. That removes a lot of misunderstandings automatically and we can just vibe!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago

Pretty sure you're missing a "/s" there bud.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Wouldn't that be treating single straight men as if they're inherently dangerous? Is that what you recommend?

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Where did you get "dangerous" from? She wants to find people who want the same thing as she does, and evidently she didn't have luck trying to find a friend among single hetero/bi men. So why not try a different group of men?

Anyway, feel free to offer alternative strategies.