this post was submitted on 19 Jan 2025
854 points (98.5% liked)

196

1602 readers
2572 users here now

Community Rules

You must post before you leave

Be nice. Assume others have good intent (within reason).

Block or ignore posts, comments, and users that irritate you in some way rather than engaging. Report if they are actually breaking community rules.

Use content warnings and/or mark as NSFW when appropriate. Most posts with content warnings likely need to be marked NSFW.

Most 196 posts are memes, shitposts, cute images, or even just recent things that happened, etc. There is no real theme, but try to avoid posts that are very inflammatory, offensive, very low quality, or very "off topic".

Bigotry is not allowed, this includes (but is not limited to): Homophobia, Transphobia, Racism, Sexism, Abelism, Classism, or discrimination based on things like Ethnicity, Nationality, Language, or Religion.

Avoid shilling for corporations, posting advertisements, or promoting exploitation of workers.

Proselytization, support, or defense of authoritarianism is not welcome. This includes but is not limited to: imperialism, nationalism, genocide denial, ethnic or racial supremacy, fascism, Nazism, Marxism-Leninism, Maoism, etc.

Avoid AI generated content.

Avoid misinformation.

Avoid incomprehensible posts.

No threats or personal attacks.

No spam.

founded 5 days ago
MODERATORS
 

I sometimes think about how other people have less happy relationships than mine, and that makes me sad for them

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[โ€“] [email protected] 40 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I know, right!?

I'm pretty introverted, and one thing I found surprising is that time with my wife counts as "alone time" for that =)

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago

Same!

One of my fears dating was that id run out of social energy and she'd realize i was really boring. A few years in our relationship, I told her. And she said she thought SHE was boring me, because she never had anything to really say.

Now it's been more than a decade and there's no social battery being drained with her, and vice versa. We charge each other up!

[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 3 days ago

She charges your battery - that's so sweet. ๐Ÿ˜ญ