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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/31764672

I start with a couple: knitting and crocheting. They are two of the two most useful things I've learned so far, all thanks to my grandmother and one of my aunts. Creating bags to carry things, repairing pants, jackets and backpacks, creating little cushions for my lower back or to support my wrist when I'm in the office, etc.

I still remember with some humor how my grandmother insisted to me that, as a man, I should not be ashamed of knowing how to crochet.

Oddly enough, my sister is the one who doesn't know how to do either those things lol

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
  • Laundry
  • Sewing and garment repair
  • Simple hand tools
  • Troubleshooting and repair of frequently used devices (cars, computers, bicycles, etc.)
  • Cooking, eating healthy, and packing a lunch
  • Basic medicine (symptom identification, when do you need to seek immediate help, first-responder training)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

Addiction, negative feedback loops, obsession and how to avoid becoming a victim of them

Which gender do you see being most typically associated with this?