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I'm talking fingering, fellatio, penetration or hell even using a garloid. What is in general terms, the most sexually pleasurable handling one may give to a woman? Please let me know your thoughts and or experiences.

p.s. It probably depends on the woman but again, generally speaking.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

There is no "one size fits all" for anyone...

I treat the first time with anyone like a session zero of a DnD campaign. We put our wants and desires forward, discuss dislikes and flat out offs, and go from there. The intimate details of how they like something is best sorted out in practice.

Edit: it seems most replies don't know what a session zero is. It's the conversation before the game starts. It's an icebreaker between the dm and the players to make sure that everyone is going into this with a similar mindset. If the players all want a role play heavy game and the dm is set up for combat focused game then it needs to be known ahead of time.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Explaining the nasty using DnD…. That’s the most nerdiest stuff I’ve seen all year.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I do try. There were any number of ways to describe the general communication that's strongly encouraged before getting into it with someone, and I considered using a dragon ball metaphor instead, but dungeons and dragons felt more apt. The long and the short of it is a bare minimum of what someone likes before getting started. Details to be pounded out at a later time.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Instructions unclear, discussed sexual boundaries with my players.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Depends on the campaign, but I've seen that work before.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I put on my robe and wizard hat

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

You wander into the town pub...

...some time later...

...ROLL FOR INITIATIVE!!!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

Very well said but bzzzzzt WRONG

every man woman and beast known to man woman and beast loves it when you stick it in their belly button, instant sex ender (because you win)