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which one do you prefer? having kids or no kids? and why?? (lemmy.world)

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 months ago (2 children)

No biological kids. In my opinion, there is no reason to produce biological children when there already are millions of parentless, unloved children in foster homes.

That being said, some days I yearn to take care of a child - to know I have given an existing being the opportunity to a better life.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

A couple of years ago, in Portugal, there were more couples looking to adopt than "viable" children up for adoption. While your statement makes total sense, it may be a insensible option on your country. Make due research!

[–] [email protected] -3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

There are options, you could foster too or adopt.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago

Thanks! I never thought of that.