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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

It’s rare, but it happens. They’re consenting adults.

I understand your desire to make this point, but a 45 year old man marrying a woman a mere 3 years after she reaches adulthood does, in fact, say a ton about the 45 year old man.

Is it legal? Sure.

Is there anything anyone can do about it? No.

Is it an indicator that this man only sees value in women's youth, and lacks the maturity to maintain a relationship with a woman his own age? Absolutely.

Is it worth pointing out that this man is a member of a party that constantly fearmongers about sexual deviancy and "protecting children", but also fucks women less than half his age? You fucking bet it is.

At the end of the day, this deranged fucker took the floor to defend a convicted criminal, and his 6-year-old child absolutely bodied him with goofy faces. We can pick him apart for all of his flaws and hypocrisy, because he fucking deserves it.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

What if the woman was 45 and the man was 21?

Edit: to not be cryptic, my hope was that you'd answer similarly... obviously. To me the issue is not the age difference in and of itself but how or if the relationship came to be because of the age difference and the issues of power and control that might imply regardless of the gender identity of the older person. Obviously, older men do typically have disproportionate power but not always.

And it was pointed out here that this guy did meet here when she was still in high school, so most likely very much a case of grooming.

But just in general I really take exception to the assumption that just because there is an age differential it's a given that there is a power differential. Even though I agree broadly with what you say, these types of assumptions smack of morality police to me.

Edit2: Of course, down vote. But why?