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I don't want to form parasocial relationships with people I fap to (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Parasocial relationships refer to one-sided relationships in which a person develops a strong sense of connection, intimacy, or familiarity with someone they don’t know, most often celebrities or media personalities. These relationships exist only in the mind of the individual, who experiences a bond despite the lack of reciprocity.

Forming parasocial relationships is fine.

Fapping (masturbating) to nsfw content is fine (unless it is illegal or unethical).

But forming a parasocial relationship with someone you fap to feels like cheating if you are in a relationship and a poor substitute for a relationship if you are single.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Maybe we just don't mock people? Why do you even care if other people do this?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I just think that such behaviour is unhealthy and we'll see just how unhealthy it is in the coming years.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

But why do you care what someone else does whether its unhealthy or not, especially when it doesn't affect you. I don't disagree though

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I don't know. Getting old and conservative in my own way, I guess.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

straight to gulag