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I'm a trans man. We don't have a secret agenda – we're just asking you to let us live.
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I love everyone, just don't expect me to call you kitten, princess, or any other pronouns outside of he/him, she/her, they/them. That's basically where I draw the line. Other than that, do whatever you want.
Uh huh...but that isn't transgender, that's Tumblrgender and they do not represent trans people lol.
How brave
Is that a thing? 😮 I also will not be addressing anyone as kitten.
No, it's another transphobic straw man. Basically the same as saying "Human love is fine just don't be fucking dogs or kids." It's injecting hate into a conversation nobody is having.
You're saying I can't call strangers pookibear? 🤬
Not strangers...but I say that you are no longer strangers with the commenter you are replying to. What do you think pookiebear? 😘
Yes, it is. When I was in high school a couple of years ago, a substitute health teacher/activist came in for a week and taught a lot about transgender/gender issues. To be clear, I have no issues at all with transgender individuals or people who struggle with gender identity. But, lord, she unleashed the 'gender unicorn' on us, and I couldn't take it seriously. There were over 70 genders, including princess, prince, kitten, xe/xem, etc.
I believe what she did was actually illegal, akin to someone coming to a school to teach about religion. I'm okay with spreading awareness, but not like this. This was just different. I was being graded on this too, so I was basically forced to answer the questions without being able to object to anything.
My understanding is that it was a Tumblr fad that became viral outside of Tumblr because it's easy to recognize the absurdity, and it made a great target for ridiculing the woke (back when "woke" was a complement, and we just called this sort of thing being "politically correct").
Point is, you can't just impose new words on purpose. Language doesn't work that way. It's all about the viral memes taking off. So it's always best to adapt existing language.
"They" is finally clicking in my mind as a singular gender neutral word, for example. It took a while, I have to admit.