Asklemmy

43397 readers

1158 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy 🔍

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

Open-ended question
Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

Lemmyverse: community search
sub.rehab: maps old subreddits to fediverse options, marks official as such
[email protected]: a community for finding communities

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 5 years ago

MODERATORS

[email protected]

What kind of network is Lemmy looking to be? (leminal.space)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

30 comments fedilink hide all child comments

I just joined Lemmy and so far I'm enjoying it. It's a little bit sparse in terms of content and users, but I think it has a really cool structure, and it feels more human than certain other social media sites.

I'm curious to know what users think about who is welcome here. Do you think it should be gates open, everyone including your aunt should join, or is it more exclusive to people interested in the fediverse as a starting point? Or something else?

Not trying to stir up shit, just genuinely curious about what the vibe is and where the community thinks it is or should be going.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 months ago (2 children)

The community right now is mostly technical, with tons of posts on Linux or just the latest tech/science news. It's not that people will be unwelcome here if they don't know this stuff, but I think someone that isn't technical like my aunt will have a harder time finding content relevant to them.

Then you have the insane number of political posts and extremists which I'm sure you've seen around. I blocked a fair number of people just so my feed isn't filled with junk. Not a good first impression if someone joins Lemmy and they instantly see those posts/comments.

I've said it before but the threadiverse (lemmy,kbin,etc) isn't mainstream ready yet. It needs better onboarding for people who have no idea how instances work, a more appealing front-end, easier ways to find communities and content, better moderation tools, maybe some other stuff too.

Overall though? Pretty neat place to be in right now.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

As a nontechnical aunt myself, I'd like to see more space here for women that aren't naked. There's no place like TrollX for memes or TwoX for serious discussion. It looks like it was tried but there weren't enough of the kind of hardass moderators necessary to prevent misogynistic brigading and trolling, and too little activity in general to keep it going. Nothing against porn (although I have my doubts about what percentage of the ladies put their own stuff up rather than someone else doing it) but the Lemmyhood feels even more male-dominated than Reddit did.

I would very much like to be wrong about this, so let me know what I've been missing. I do follow some of the traditionally-female-craft communities like Embroidery.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Agreed. Lemmy/kbin is definitely very technical, very early stages just like reddit was back in the day. Mastodon and Pixelfed though are pretty set up, and I think those are safe for our aunts to start joining. Someone should start an instance for all of our family members... so they stay over there and we choose to federate with them (but then we have alts on accounts that don't federate..)