#1 finds ways to not give you a solution despite having one. #2 finds ways to give you a solution despite not having any.
TheV2
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Vada Chennai
#1 finds ways to not give you a solution despite having one. #2 finds ways to give you a solution despite not having any.
Vada Chennai
I know people mean it well and I respect that. But it's a little indirect insult, when their first reaction is to assume that you feel bad about it and to patronize you.
Of course there are people with that mindset among short dating men who often aggressively blame women's standards. So I try to be not too upset about it.