[-] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

That wasn't my point.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Germany enters the chat.

[-] [email protected] 54 points 4 days ago

Personally I find it a lot more disturbing that intersex babies are still assgined a binary gender by a doctor and then get surgery to shape their genitals. The parents are often scaremongered and pressured into consenting and the affected people don't know it was done to them until firmly into adulthood. It's often a sterilising surgery too.

If you are against doctors doing gender changing surgery, please start with the babies? But oh no! Then the argument that there are only two genders falls apart.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

True. But I'd also like to see a reduction of seemingly general purpose down voting. There seem to be users who do nothing but down vote everything in sight.

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It depends a lot on the situation. My exparents lived with my paternal exgrandparents until I was 8. Completely seperate households tho. Just in the same house.

If theres a partner and kids it's important that everyone negotiates boundaries and communicates well. If it's one household the chores and finances need to be shared in a way that works and so on.

Personally I moved out as early as I could because these people are abusive. I find it awe inspiring that you manage to coexist peacefully when everyone is an adult. If it works for you it works for you. In many cultures living with your parents is normal. I think worrying about what other people think, those that won't pay your rent and don't interact with your family isn't productive. You're the one who has to live with the decisions you make.

[-] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

If this person doesn't have white skin, isn't christian or gender conforming there's a whole host of other horror stories that apply tho.

[-] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

Jokes on you. Now you buy twice as much and neither likes it. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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You and me both.

[-] [email protected] 37 points 1 week ago

In Europe the US healthcare system is seen as a joke and medieval. Same for most social services I'm the US. Like somebody else said I stopped feeling sympathy a while ago.

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No cat was permanently harmed ;)

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