Lavender

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Fictional evil characters are extremely popular in media.

Jack O'Connell is a talented, conventionally attractive man and his character was powerful, charismatic, and compelling.

He was supernaturally evil and that evil wasn't tied to him being Irish. He was depicted as more sympathetic than the KKK who sought to kill out of hate instead of a supernatural compulsion.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

He was consumed by the devil. He was hollowed out and dehumanized by being forcefully assimilated. He's making a futile attempt to save himself by bringing in Sammie when in fact he's already lost his soul.

He can perform the music and art of his culture, but it's not for the sake of his heritage or to bring people together in community. It's to fill an emptiness within himself brought about by the vampire that turned him.

He was made into a monster, forced into living a half life, convinced that he can undo the harm done to him by harming others.

I don't see him as the personification of the devil so much as a casualty of the devil.

You see in the movie that the other people who become vampires act in ways they wouldn't otherwise.

His Irish heritage wasn't vilified and at no point did a character conflate his heritage with his villainous acts.

The rest of the cast were wary of him more because he was white in a space for people of color.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Lmao she hangs up the phone after.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 day ago

With the finite time one has on this planet, I can't imagine spending any of it correcting someone on the technical definition of harm to a minor.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Rebrand one to Tooters and sell beans.

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Is that a real username?

[–] [email protected] 44 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Take in the guy who made nazi salutes, but fuck leftists, right?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I just go with Annie's vegan mac

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Lol I'm glad you made the post.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

Agreed. Though i do hope they keep the incantation lines when they cast spells. It's looking like it'll be a faithful adaptation, but time will tell.

 

I struggle to do things in silence. Earlier today, I was unable to cook for almost thirty minutes because I couldn't find something to listen to. Like I didn't start until I could find something to settle on.

Before starting something, I usually try to check in with someone or I'll start up a chat. I don't have the bandwidth to long.

Other times I'll have my laptop with a document on one side of the screen with a movie on the other. With a switch nearby, my phone in my hand, and I'm trying to eat a meal.

I have these rich fantasy worlds I'll daydream in. Like legit world building where I need things to make sense.

It feels like I'm distracting myself from my life sometimes. I'm not in a great place, and I know I'd start tasks when I'm stressed. Sometimes I'll drop make plans and then drop them immediately. Other times I'll freeze and stall before making a decision.

On one hand, I think this is a form of dissociation, given my trauma history. I'm just disengaged and I don't feel motivated to take action.

I also think it might be autism. I'll let myself get lost in rabbit holes that interest me and I'm very particular.

I also don't know if this is adhd. The multitasking and keeping busy feel in line. I struggled to pay attention in school, but I don't know if that was stress or something else.

I feel a lot of shame around this and wonder if these are traits of narcissism. I'm absent minded with being on time for other people, and I feel like using people distract myself is wrong.

I'm asking this because I want to properly identify how my actions may be read so that I can communicate better. Any literature, feedback, or advice is welcome.

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