Doubletake2121

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

That's what the, "friend" part of FWB is for. That's how we did it. My wife isn't demi, but she finds it hard (if not impossible) to get off with a stranger. It's an anxiety thing.

What we did is, we looked around for friends, people we liked and enjoyed being around. No pressure, just if it happened, it happened. And eventually we found people we vibed with.

I'm not saying it works for everyone, but with zero pressure on all sides, it did for us.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago

Yeah, it's been pretty great, frankly. I used to do a fair variety of drugs, nothing too serious, but she never did. She once asked me what mushrooms were like, and I was like, "Why not find out for yourself?" so I grew up a batch after a shit ton of trial and error, lol.

She's my best friend, but it takes so much work. Everybody scoffs at how often, "communication" is bandied about as the key to a relationship, but yeah, it's that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

It might not strike you as a, "toy" but the Liberator (or whatever knockoff works for ya) is an extremely useful object. Especially if you're into bondage, but just overall.

The small wedge is the most useful, since it lifts the hips up a bit, making things more uh...accessible, without strain.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 hours ago (5 children)

You never know. My wife and I have been married for 20 years, and we get up to some wild shit. Just depends on the relationship. I wouldn't have thought we would even five years ago, but we have firm boundaries, and the timing was right to start branching out.

Might never happen. Might turn out that she takes mushrooms once and decides she wants to know what it's like. Happened to me, lol.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

I'm very much against the death penalty. My state doesn't have it anymore, and good riddance. However, those kinds of checks are necessary, if it absolutely must occur.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 hours ago

...don't we all? It's one thing to support basic human decency without going out of your way to defend a clearly predatory industry or person, as she did. As the lack of oversight here allowed this individual to rape 300 people.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

It's not that. She supported Gerard Depardeau. It was a controversy about sexual assault in the French film industry. There's a bunch of articles covering it.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 hours ago

I hate that I had to look this up to find out if it was real. Thank fuck it isn't, but I don't even think that makes me feel better.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 hours ago

I swear somebody told me rape was bad, yesterday. Brother, I think most of us fuckin' know. The ones that don't, aren't gonna take your word for it, lmao.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

Press, and family of the inmate, if I recall.

I believe it's very important that these executions are observed. If the state gets to operate with impunity and no witnesses, many of these states have shown they don't have what it takes to act ethically with regards to the death penalty.

Every execution would be, "flawless", with no witnesses to say otherwise. Many victims families most likely wouldn't care either way, so it's the rest of the publics duty to ensure that executions are conducted in the most humane manner possible.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 hours ago

I'm 40, and that was the first time I used it, so¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

Slides aren't registered. Just buy a new one, use that for the crime, and chuck it in the river. Replace it with the original, so the wear matches. Hell, a whole new slide is only a few hundred bucks.

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