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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

I think you need a new keyboard lol. Did you mean ataraxia?

Another word I haven't heard until now, but yes, I do support this attitude to life. I think I've learnt it from my ex. Sometimes bad things happen that are beyond your control and lamenting them is a waste of time, which can be much better spent on trying to figure if there is anything that can be done about the loss or adversity. And if nothing can be done, move on to enjoying other things in life.

I was interested to read that in ancient times, ataraxia was the ideal state for soldiers heading for battle. You can be sure as hell that if I was about to face the prospect of killing others or being killed, ataraxia would be the last mental state I'd be in!

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago

To save as many animals as I can

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 4 weeks ago

To be furiously myself.

Of course there's "how do you define yourself" but I discover it every day and it changes spectrally every few weeks (it better) so my definition is wrong over and over again. And I'm right over and over again too. Am I drunk?

It's hard to define in words, since words lose meaning and are imperfect when they leave your mouth.
But I feel well-defined when I turn a gun game into a tea party. Or a tea party into a gun game.
When I stay up wake to grab an extra bite of time, or when I do jack shit to stare at cool red cirrus clouds. I'm defined when I fuck up but bite my way up the wall into a standing position.
When I write something down and look back at it later -- "wow, I was smart" or "wow, I was braindead" -- then do it again.
Decorate my room, or make my lock screen pretty, or reanimate a useless skill.

I'm only a little opinionated though. If I download a personality, that's still me. If I 180, that's still me. If I'm dead wrong and eat advice, that's still me.

I'm not gonna carpe diem into a crime spree but my time is fucking mine so fuck everything (romantically/derogatorily)

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Not to die today

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

So much this.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To discover and adhere to an objectively moral life.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago

Me too, but I started from the context of AGI safety: eventually we will make a superintelligent machine without any wisdom, that could be given any moral system, even making paperclips.

So here's my draft of a logical path to maximal morality, and consequent values: https://www.quora.com/If-you-were-to-come-up-with-three-new-laws-of-robotics-what-would-they-be/answers/23692757

Of course it was downvoted to oblivion on LessWrong, probably because they believe: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/NnohDYHNnKDtbiMyp/fake-utility-functions

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I hope to leave whatever spaces I inhabit better than before I was there. I also want to be a cute girl with a cute tummy and thick thighs. I believe these are both aligned with one another.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Lol It's great when different values align and each builds towards your life purpose.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Spend your life enjoying it and helping others enjoy theirs. As the universe unfolds, we've only got this one brief moment of consciousness before we disappear, we have to make our life filled with as much happiness as we can. And help others fill theirs.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Have you looked into Epicuianism? Sounds like what you wrote fits.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

No. I came up with this myself as I was pondering the world, the universe, how there is no evidence of any god existing, and how the best science we have tells us that we are just matter and energy inhabiting spacetime. But matter arranged in such fantastically improbable way that we can feel happiness. Why waste the precious moments we've been given on doing anything other than striving to feel happiness? Which of course can come in different forms for every one of us.

I've just had a quick search, I guess your message has a typo and you meant Epicureanism? It is similar to how I feel about life, but it seems to say that lack of pain and fear is enough to consider oneself happy. I'd go a bit further and postulate active pursuit of things that positively make you or fellow sentient beings feel pleasure.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

I did misspell Epicureanism.

They do suggest that seeking pleasure is very important. But there's a focus on the simple pleasures with time with friends as one of the highest pleasure. There's also the concept of atarxia which the state of mind of calmness and acceptance.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

it doesnt matter

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Purpose in life? I'm not American, sorry

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago
[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

To quote Carl Sagan, โ€œWe are a way for the cosmos to know itself.โ€

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

To annoy my wife.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Crush the patriarchy and bring about equity and equality. And jacking the hogโ€ฆ

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

To crush my enemies, see them driven before me and hear the lamentations of their women

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

You decide it yourself, thus it's for you to figure out. Personally, I like little things. Like pop rocks I bought earlier. I think they worth living a little, aren't they?

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

To cut all ties, live in a penthouse, and never go onto the ground again until my body is found after dozens of amazon boxes at my door prompts a wellness check. I refuse to live as a permanent victim used to inspire actual people to not be outdone by something below them. I refuse to be marijuana and nicotine users' emotional punching bag. That's all I'll ever be in society if I don't cut ties or die.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

To make as many people as uncomfortable as I humanly can.

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I try to follow a set of rules which define how i should live my life written in my own words, which essentially restate the golden rule/10 commandments/fundamental tenets/etc. I read them as myself, as if I'm giving advice to myself. Pronouns can be tricky. I don't follow them perfectly and often will tweak the wording, hoping to avoid misinterpretation.

I call them my veritaclaritives. (veritas + clarus = loud and clear truth; probably bad latin)

  • Always look out for #1

  • Always be prepared for a #2 (e.g. romance, friendships, shit)

  • Only desire what you require

  • It's only theft if they need it more than you (emphasis on NEED)

  • Create more than you consume

  • Help people up, more and before you put anyone down

  • Treat everyone as a friend until they prove otherwise (emphasis on both THEY and PROVE; the golden rule)

  • Make amends with your friends, before an unexpected end (r.i.p. Nivec)

  • Keep your friends close, be your own worst enemy

  • If thoughts of any enemy anger you, you've already lost (note plural)

  • Destroy enemies until they are unable to do you harm

  • All enemies can be defeated through unconditional love.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

These are more rules than a purpose, but do you think these rules are guiding you to a specific purpose?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago

To live my life as happily as I can. Oh and two chicks at the same time I guess.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Being as comfortable as possible

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To get as close to my true self as possible.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Why do you think there's a true self if you're not close to it?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

The true self changes slightly with each new experience. So I can get close to it but I will never be it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

I'm on a life-long quest to finding the EXIT from this matrix. For this I have to become the supreme lord of Holy C

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

On a cosmic timescale, facilitate a world with minimal suffering and maximal fulfillment.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] -3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Everyone is born evil, the purpose is to realise we're one. It's a long cycle and we've done well in the last 100 year vs 1000 years

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hard disagree. I think we're born stupid, that's very different.

Honestly, your comment sounds a lot like the "original sin" shit that the Christian church tries to push.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Well I'm probably wording it wrong or you're reading it differently.

But, what I mean is every individual has their own journey towards their maturity when they realise helping others is the way to go.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I don't have one. I just do what I can to be a good person and that's it. And I'm ok with it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Nothing. Purpose implies the potential for failure and while there are certainly circumstances that I would consider personal failures, there are none so great that they would invalidate my existence.

That said, I have a vision for my life and the state of the world that I would like to see realized. I want to see a world where climate change is taken seriously and recognized as the imminent threat that it is. It will be waiting on the other side of every economic crisis or war that man chooses to wage.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

To be exploited in every way possible.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate the beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch Or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded!

  • Ralph Waldo Emerson
[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

To be happy and enjoy things, and to make others happy in return! โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Œ

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