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Context: Me and my partner went out for a meal last night. 7-9. The restaurant in question was absolutely heaving as you'd expect on a Friday night. And we got unfortunately positioned directly next to the offending group of maybe 10 adults and 3-4 young kids.

I should say, the kids weren't the issue here, for the most part they were on a separate table and we didn't hear them (we've got two of our own, we don't mind a bit of kid noise). The adults though, oh boy.

Now normally I'm not one to complain (guess what - I didn't complain) but these guys were getting looks from across the entire venue. They're swearing, they're doing some sort of (almost comedic) booming laughing thing that wouldn't have been out of place at a Brian Blessed convention and this went on for the entire 2 hours they were there.

In short: how do you get a party of people to tone it down just a little so that the rest of us can enjoy our evening out, without getting a torrent of abuse or making it incredibly awkward? Is It even possible?

Edit

This...went in a direction I wasn't expecting. Just trying to drum up a little Saturday morning activity for the community. If I was that bothered I'd have just asked the staff to ask them to tell the group to quieten down.

I'm not sure how or why this got into a debate about the rights and wrongs of GenZ; a generation I'm not even a member of but hey ho.

Y'all have a nice day now.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

You join them in their fun

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You ask the staff? God I'm going to sound like a boomer but what the fuck is gen z learning growing up? This is real basic shit.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

You sound like a boomer because you’re answering it like a condescending dick. Could have simply said “ask the staff”.

Edit: removed the following text because it was interpreted as an attack(?):

“Anyway, I hope you have a nice day. I’m going for a walk to enjoy the cold air.”

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

You also sound patronizing and condescending here.

Edit: They have edited their comment to no longer be patronizing.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

you ask the waiter if they can move you to another table