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[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I had sex with a female yesterday.

/s

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Maybe... The femoid also says she loves when I compile the Linux kernel

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

Oh, it's a fembot.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 5 days ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It really is just an anti-trans thing.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Naw, they were using that before all the anti trans nonsense. It's more about their inability to see women as human. They identify them more for their gender than being the same species as them. If they started calling them women that would humanize women too much...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Nah, it was a thing for weird dudes well before trans rights entered the public consciousness.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago

I call women "femei"

Is it bad?

[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 days ago (2 children)

female as an adjective for clarification (like "oh you're looking for that female doctor over there") is ok, female as a noun is just weird

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago

There are contexts where it makes sense, mostly medicine or science, but even in those contexts it's deliberately dehumanizing, which is the point. It is also the only English word for a female human that does not imply age, as woman and girl both do.

The quick sniff test: "Males and females"? Clinical, but probably fine. "Men and females"? Fucking Ferengi freak, avoid that guy

[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Unless you're speaking about (non human) animals. Saying a dog is a female is fine.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

I knew it! Once I suggested this to someone assuming they're, like me, not a native speaker, and got downvoted to hell. Turned out I was too woke.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago

true! connotation is a weird thing.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (8 children)

How do I formally refer to a girl I do not respect(because she's a menace) who is late 40's early 50's? So the different terms have implications I don't care for it want to convey.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I would get creative with it, just because she's horrible doesn't mean you don't get to have a good time. "The purveyor of lies", "fount of unreason", maybe give her a nickname that relates to one of her mistakes. If you can come up with something new every time it can become like a game, even if you're only saying them in your head.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Have a good time coming up with insulting names

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

Ahh yeah. 🤣

I've been going with troll lately.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

bitch, or even better, motherfucking bitch asshole

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[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

From the point of view of that girl you're a red flag anyway. But "a menace" works too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Red flag? I'm not trying to date my dangerous old hag of a downstairs neighbor. I'm actually filling a restraining order against her.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Not as bad as the ones that call women femoids.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (2 children)

It's very prevalent on 4chan and the like if you want to look at it and be depressed for a bit

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago

It's an incel thing.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I'm not sure I like the idea of demonizing people just because of a word. Unless it's something as fucked as the n word, it might just be a matter of dialect. Many non-native English speakers I know use female as a replacement for woman. The intent is the more important thing. Sometimes the most well spoken man can also be sexist.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Idk about other languages, but in Spanish "male/female" is reserved for animals*. So it'd be freaking weird to use it in English.

^*it can be used for people but not in 99% of contexts.^

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Sure, but there are other languages in the world. In Bangla, for example, we formally use different words for different genders of animals. But people often add the equivalent of boy/girl in front of the animal name to signify its gender. For us, there are no hard rules for the usage of these adjectives/nouns.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Otoh, some women use this while referring to other women, e.g. "us females need to stick together!" - in a totally positive and inclusive manner (or what looks like that, from me on the outside - i.e. not using language in such manner myself, for either men or women).

So maybe instead of a red flag it's more like an orange one? VERY noteworthy, but not enough on its own to justify cutting off contact with someone, whereas for an actual red flag you would... right?

[–] [email protected] -5 points 5 days ago (8 children)

Drag wonders why that woman chose to say females instead of women. It's a very odd way to phrase it, and the only practical consequence of the change is to exclude trans women. Was that the intention?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I've seen you around Lemmy for a little while now. Why do you insist on referring to yourself in the 3rd person?

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