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Please don't think I'm here to complain about rizz or skibidi toilet etc. Thats all fine by me.

The term I dislike strongly is 'eeeh' before you make a statement disagreeing with someone. (This is over text only). Now maybe I've been pavloved bc it's always used by someone disagreeing. But I'm happy with people disagreeing with me normally its just the 'eeeh' or 'erm' that annoys me.

So what's a random term that annoys you?

PS. Saying "eeeh actually 'eeh' is a perfectly fine term" would be a ridiculously easy joke and I will judge you for making it. And I know atleast one person will. Especially bow that I've said all this.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (2 children)

The replacement of the term “conspiracy theory” with just “conspiracy”.

That’s two different things. If we equate the two semantically we can’t discuss them.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Ironic considering your username is almost an ASL

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

"Oftentimes"

Its always interchangeable with Often. Just use Often.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Please do the needful.

This one really grinds my gears! I think it's because the person can't even be bothered to describe what they want you to do, just go fix it and don't bother me with any details.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago

"Completely different" when the two things are actually very similar

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (2 children)
  • paradigm shift
  • military grade encryption
  • cyber kill chain
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[–] [email protected] 31 points 6 months ago (6 children)

I cringe so hard at the twitterist carebear-hugbox way of smugly claiming the intellectual high ground and shaming somebody:

"Be better." or "Do better."

The sentiment isn't terrible, but it's prevalent use is obviously just dripping with arrogance and thrown out in the most petty ways. Ugh!

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Queer. Not all gay men (the one group I can safely speak about) like to be associated with an ex-slur and its connotations.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 months ago (2 children)

"It is what it is"

I get the sentiment behind it, it's just usually so defeatist/dismissive of a situation to me.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

That’s now how people in my subculture use it.

They use it to mean “it’s too late to avoid this problem; let’s talk about things we can change at this point”.

Example:

“If you hadn’t stopped at that rest area the killer never would have slashed our tires”

“Well if you hadn’t jumped for those cheap tires maybe he wouldn’t have been able to slash them with a butter knife”

“And if you’d paid for the triple A we’d have a ride by now”

“Look, it is what it is. Let’s just figure out a way to get back to town without having to follow the road”

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Starting every sentence with "So". "So" being the way to indicate the beginning of a sentence.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Coffe-shop barista voice.

You all know what I mean: that 'I'm trying to make my voice croak but can't manage it." intonation.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (3 children)

I have no idea what you mean

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago (1 children)

"Live. Laugh. Love." or similar.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

Using the phrase "serious question" or "honest question" will make me immediately assume your question is the exact opposite of that. Probably I'm overreacting, but expecting that anyone might respect that declaration you've made about your own question, that gives me narcissist vibes.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Trump, Zuckerberg, Musk, Gates....

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Do you often look out your window and see everything you dream about and wish you had?

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