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[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

There's also the problem of some religious conservatives not realizing that straight people exist.

According to conservative psychologists like Paul Cameron or James Dobson, gay sex is a huge "temptation" that people must learn to resist; they worry that it would be the downfall of society if more people chose to succumb to that temptation. They might blame that temptation on Satan directly, or on LGBT+ propagandists, or liberalism; but they very much seem to believe that anyone could choose to be gay.

Sorry, no, that's not how straight people work.

If you experience gay sex as a strong temptation, you're just not straight. That's okay! Quite a lot of people are straight, and are just not interested in having gay sex. If all the people who are "tempted" to have gay sex went and did so, there would still be lots of straight people left having lots of straight sex.

The odd part is that these conservative psychologists then teach this doctrine of "gay sex is a strong temptation for everyone" to an audience composed of mostly straight people.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I would propose that some Christians think that gays are trying to convert them because they feel attracted to people of the same gender. If you have no sexual attraction to people of the same sex, then the idea that you could ever be converted to being gay is going to seem ridiculous. I'm straight; I'm simply uninterested in being people with male bodies or male genitalia. On the other hand, if I was bisexual--or simply gay--and believed that homosexuality was sinful, then I might feel like depictions of homosexual people in media was an attempt to change who I "am".

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

As someone who was raised in the church I think this completely misses their perspective.

They believe that God is completely fair and just, and wouldn't make someone in a way that was contrary to how he wants people to be. So it's impossible for being LGBT to be something innate and unchangeable, since that would require God created people specifically in a way that he says is wrong.

So instead they go with "it's a choice, they were 'converted' and it's possible for them to mess up everyone else too." It's just to stave off cognitive dissonance, essentially. You can't believe in a God that says being gay is sinful and then creates people to be gay, so you have to believe it's like alcoholism or something and can affect anyone.

There's no logic behind it and clearly no scientific data, but that won't stop them because they arrived at the conclusion based purely on it being the only thing they can believe and not change the way they understand the nature of their God claim.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

They believe that God is completely fair and just, and wouldn’t make someone in a way that was contrary to how he wants people to be.

This simply can't be supported though. Christians tend to be gender essentialists, but there are a wide range of genetic defects where people appear to conform to one gender while not having a genetic makeup that conforms to the assigned gender, e.g., androgen insensitivity syndrome. So if people are made exactly how god intends them to be, and sex is an essential part of that, how can people exist that do not genetically conform to their assigned gender, or any binary gender? You can't say that god doesn't make mistakes and say that sex must be binary, when genetic errors prove that at least one of those propositions must be false.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

You could say the same thing about psychopaths, since they believe that everyone has the ability to understand that they're sinful, etc.

That's why I said there's no real logic, it's all just cherry picking the parts they want to believe and ignoring the real world aspects that don't conform to their presuppositions.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Only the big evangelist types or Mormons which isn't all Christians. I know plenty of Christians who are quiet about it and only talk about it if you bring it up, unlike people really into politics. Even with Mormons I've known many who don't say anything about it and even sneak in coffee...

Go to a Unitarian church where people will usually identify as Christian.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I'd have to agree with you, and appreciate the thought regarding not over generalizing Christians, but I understand why people tend to.

Example: Remember cake lady from Indiana? She was a bigot. It pissed me off when she tried to use the excuse of 'religious beliefs'. Since she specifically claimed Christianity, I call total BS on the grounds that Jesus NEVER treated anyone like shit (aside from the other religious people, which following that thought, means she would have gotten called out). Jesus always gave people grace, and then offered advise (specific to Christianity). I would so much rather people be honest and say they don't like ____, instead of some BS hiding behind their own distorted version of faith. I don't have to agree with their opinion, just don't lie about it.

Also, I've never had any person who's gay try to 'convert' me, ever. You could get a bunch of comedy bits out of that one though. I have had mormons and jo's witnesses come by. They were nice, but if I wanted to waste a bunch of time talking, I would definitely ask them to explain views on dancing, sexuality, etc.

The only pro gay conversion I've ever been exposed to was movies/TV shows advocating for it being a 'normal' thing. I suppose that's because in the US, it's still considered 'weird' or wrong, and writers are trying to back it for what I imagine are civil rights reasons.

I'm not sure why it's so hard to stop caring about stuff that doesn't matter (to me). I have never cared about a person's orientation.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I agree overall with your points, but there is just one caveat: your points are spoken from American and Christian perspective, and there is homophobia in some cultures that are not Christian-based. Majority Chinese, for example, describes themselves as atheists, but they are by and large homophobic. I might be wrong, but I heard CCP is cracking down on fashion, aesthetics and male celebs that might be "too feminine".

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I suspect that our home grown American and Christian homophobia is not Christian-based at all. People don’t like the thing that is different or icky, and instead of being introspective about why that is or if it’s the right thing to do, they see that the Bible or their preacher agree. Then it’s time to turn off the thought process and just go with it.

It’s just a happy little evil coincidence. Typical biblical cherry picking being spoon fed to the base. Funny how little discussion they have about how the Bible has instructions for abortions and how to treat your slaves.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Christian homophobia is not Christian-based at all. People don’t like the thing that is different

It’s just a happy little evil coincidence.

It's not. It's an inherent quality in Abrahamic monotheistic religions.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_monotheism#Violence_in_monotheism

The intolerance of narrow monotheism is written in letters of blood across the history of man from the time when first the tribes of Israel burst into the land of Canaan. The worshippers of the one jealous God are egged on to aggressive wars against people of alien [beliefs and cultures]. They invoke divine sanction for the cruelties inflicted on the conquered. The spirit of old Israel is inherited by Christianity and Islam, and it might not be unreasonable to suggest that it would have been better for Western civilization if Greece had moulded it on this question rather than Palestine.

— Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan

Christianity is inherently intolerant (see the 10 commandments).

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Oh I wasn’t suggesting that Christianity was off the hook. It’s just that people do not require religion to be bigots.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

Oh, so, perhaps... something along the lines of:

With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion. — Steven Weinberg

..?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

I mean there is a benefit to convert someone to your sexuality (you fugg'em) but the very sentence I wrought there sounds insane and outlandish I don't understand how you would go about that.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

That’s a big strawman

Off topic: I like to put Lemmy posts or comments into the LLMs and see what it comes back with.

The two examples Gemini provided for straw man where around the topics of gun control, and renewable energy.

It's like there's a ton of terrible arguments around the internet for these two topics /s There are.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

It is just a theory, but I do think it's a pretty good one. I don't know if there's any way to prove it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

Probably listen to there speeches and surmons that are posted online then figure it out. Another theory is it could be a highly selective interpretation of the Jewish old testiment law to provide "evidence" that Satan and his servants walk along them and are a threat to everything they stand for

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

Idk. Fallacy and logic checks makes sense in the context of debate. The context of this post is not a debate (I personally see it more like a showerthought).

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