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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 days ago

I'd like to see the chart go back a lot further tbh

[–] [email protected] 42 points 6 days ago (5 children)

as an asexual person i find other people's opinions on this interesting. the sex scenes do nothing for me and i'm usually just waiting for them to end but i understand my circumstances are not common. i can only assume that someone who is into sex gets something out of sex scenes, otherwise they wouldn't exist.

what i don't understand is the demonizing of sex scenes in movies. like does everyone only watch movies with their parents/kids? i don't like sex scenes due to my asexuality and i'm glad that there are few of them because this cultural shift benefits me specifically (who has never been in the target demographic) in a roundabout way. but i wouldn't say they are all gross/unnecessary/graphic/etc as a blanket statement like i see people in this thread and other places online say. art doesn't need to be for everyone.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Is this what it feels like to be color blind and have people show you charts? Who the hell puts all the other comparison metrics in gray scale?

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Tv shows took the sex thing

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 6 days ago (4 children)

That sex is even considered a vice on the same level as drugs and violence is fucking bonkers.

This graph alone gives legitimacy to this idea. Nudity and sex are completely normal (and necessary) things in life. That something that is needed for everyone reading this to exist being labeled as a vice like violence and drugs is actually disgusting IMHO.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 6 days ago

You are thinking of it wrong... Why would these bitches be having sex when they could be working a corpo making daddy some mother fucking money?!

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 days ago (6 children)

Is the spike in the early 2000's from the cinematic masterpiece The Room? Three sex scenes in the span of like 15 minutes, ooh la la.

Seriously though, as much of a horndog I can be, I like the decline of random sex scenes in movies. Very rarely added anything to the story for me. I'm not a fan of violence, but fortunately it's not too hard to avoid.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Yeah, my bet is that sex used to be this thing you rarely see, so seeing it in a movie was this interesting event. Now we have access to more porn than you could possibly ever consume at your fingertips. Sex in movies used to sell a movie. Now I don't think anyone really cares.

Some people are seeing this and assuming sex has become more divisive so they stopped showing it. I'm almost certain it's the opposite. No one cares anymore.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Three sex scenes using footage from only one lmao

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

That Tommy Wiseau was truly a visionary.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

Seems to match when more people had better access to smartphones and watching videos not just in the privacy of their home. Could be a lot of people aren't watching movies with sex as often because you don't want to be on a bus/plane where others can see your screen and suddenly it's a sex scene. (Amongst other reasons)

[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago

"Where the tatties at?"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago

Where boobies :(

[–] [email protected] 24 points 6 days ago

I'm guessing it's because the highest grossing films are now just slop trying to appeal to the widest demographic possible, so if they include sex, the are excluding families from seeing the film.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

We need to go lower

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I find myself watching older TV a lot because it's got way less graphic sex and violence. I don't want to see a person get ripped in half and their guts flying everywhere and i don't need to see every actress' boobs. sorry if that makes me a "prude" or whatever but it's way too much for my taste

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I think some of this comes with age?

I used to be more willing to watch that stuff 20 years ago, which was almost half my lifetime ago.

But it's personal choice.

There were some pretty horrendous stuff on TV, particularly an episode of Law and Order LA where they were dissolving a guy in lye in a bathtub and an episode of Medium where a guy was putting out lit cigarettes on the belly of a dog. I noped right the fuck out of those. These were both years ago at this point but I pretty much refuse to watch cop shows anymore as a result.

One aspect of sex in media is probably the accessibility of pornography. It's not special anymore to see a butt or a nipple, so it's not driving people to the theaters. When I was a kid the closest thing that I had to a Playboy was the Lane Bryant catalog, so seeing Cindy Crawford's side-boob was pretty awesome, even if I had to endure Alec Baldwin's hairy ass for the privilege.

The social acceptance of things seem to be like a pendulum rather than a continuous movement too. It's definitely swinging towards the prude at the moment. It will swing back eventually.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I wonder if it’s linked to the decline in sex in real life due to young people staying inside more and playing video games instead of socializing. I swear I saw an article about that at some point on Lemmy (or maybe Reddit).

[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

People, especially young people are having sex less across the board because everyday life has become a crushing grind, not because of videogames and staying inside. People do choose to do those things instead of socializing... because they are burnt out from trying to meet rent, getting treated like shit at work and sitting in hours of traffic everyday.

Young people are still just as horny, they are just also very tired and sad.

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