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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

IIRC, that timeline was pretty stressful, so I think it's fair

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Considering what happens on a weekly basis, I'd say all timelines are pretty stressful in Starfleet.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Old people used to look different

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Used to and will again, apparently.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago

They always over did it with the aging make-up in those days. Picard at the end of The Inner Light looks straight up horrifying.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Huh. 1995 was almost 30 years ago. Now excuse me while the nurse rolls me out to the patio so I can take a nap.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I finished high school in 1995, so I'll be along shortly.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

-95 was just like a decade ago, right?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

As far as I'm concerned, it's been 1998 or so for years now.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

damn it's hot in here! did you guys know it '98 up in here?!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

True story: Just the other day, I saw kids dancing to "I put my hand upon your hip, when I dip, you dip, we dip". That took me back 😅

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah the thing they don't really inform us of as kids is that while you may live for several decades after "starting your life" (ie finishing schools, going to work), but that it weirdly feels shorter than the few odd years in school.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Having a kid really sped things up for me. It felt like just yesterday she was the little baby that I could hold in the crook of my arm and now she's 14.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Looking forward to that, unless I missed it already.

Luckily we men have a tad larger window, but I always imagined being with someone pretty much exactly my age, but that's not like a criteria or anything. Just aways had that thought.

If I want that I should really hurry up some. My own father didn't really the ability to play with us and I'd like to be able to physically play with my kids.

Oh completely unrelated rant, sorry, I'm just jealous.

The last decade feels like it has gone by faster for me than some years in school. And nothing much to show for it, except a decade of aging on my face.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I had the rare good luck of finding someone early and being with her, but waiting until our 30s to have a kid.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah. I'm happy for you, friend.

My luck is pretty much the same as Donald Duck's.

Eh, perhaps some day. Never say never and all that.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, I would definitely never say never. I have a friend who is an awesome guy. Really likable and good looking. Not an enemy in the world. He could never stay in a relationship. He just got married last year at age 45.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That does instill some hope in me. Thank you for the reassurance.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You're welcome and good luck! I don't believe in soulmates or being made for each other or anything like that, but I do think that, unless you live out in the middle of nowhere, there's probably someone not too far away that will think you'll be compatible with them. No relationship has to be perfect. Ours has sure had its ups and downs over the years. It's really hard to find that person, especially these days when there are so fewer social options (everyone in cafes is wearing earbuds now), but they're still around.

And even if you do live out in the sticks, people find love online all the time.

I have faith in you finding love out there!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Not to brag, but getting into a relationship was never a challenge for me. I'm not really looking right now, due to the situation I'm in. Let's say the dating pool around my current living situation isn't one I feels like investing in. (There's a related saying, "never stick yo dick in crazy")

And even if I decided not to have kids, I can still have meaningful relationships. It's just... I'm around that baby fever age. I don't have one or want a crying shitbucket, essentially, but there clearly is an evolutionary need to procreate. Perhaps I'll grow out of it.

But like, just on a cognitive level, it seems so... weird, not to procreate, becsuse literally all my ancestors going back to their beginning of life have done that.

I'm sure you know what I mean.

I have faith in you finding love out there!

Me too man, but I'll look for it... a bit later. Cheers for the sentiment tho!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

They always make old women's hair look like shit in flash forwards, like women stop taking care of their hair when they're old and just let it turn into a wirey mess

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

I think it would be difficult to smile with face contours made of latex.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Isn't Terry Farrell dramatically allergic to direct sunlight? I feel like I read that in the trivia for the episode The Ship, and that was why Dax had to stay inside for the whole episode.

Never being allowed to go out in direct sunlight will have a real positive effect on one's aging process.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

Yep, she has a skin condition. I didn't know this, so I looked it up. I guess it's not super common knowledge, but she has discussed it before.

One of the fans asked Terry Farrell about her skin disorder, which prevented her from doing much shooting outside, such as the episode Rocks and Shoals where Dax stays inside a cave for most of the episode. Farrell told how she was teased when people saw her about walking about with a parasol.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I’d imagine it would make me super depressed but I guess less blemishes.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Nah, accurate projection for what a fifty year old looked like in the 90's.

Go look up william hartnell and Peter capaldi as the 1st and 12th Doctors. Dudes were the same age bracket when they portrayed the character. We're lasting longer.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Lasting longer, but also having much better access to basic skin care routines, smoking has dropped sharply and nobody has natural hair color anymore.

  • Stallone was the same age in Creed as Burgess Meredith was in the original Rocky.

  • Tom Cruise was older in Top Gun Maverick than Tom Skerritt was in Top Gun.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

"today" is before 2021, and it seems to be a carefully selected photo she uses when asked for autograph.

who would expect such photo with good lighting, make-up and possibly any amount of digital editing look better, than character who was supposed to be "old person in the wild", right?

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

That picture is still recent, albeit a few years old. Here is one or 2 from 2024. And yes, she's still got it!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She's aging into Kerri Kenney-Silver

[–] [email protected] 87 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Honestly people are looking younger than previous generations.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I know people are citing smoking and sunscreen but i'd like to give a shoutout to microplastics

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Haha are you talking indirect exposure or the jam it in my face kind?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The environmental "jam it in my everything" kind. It's like we're being slowly plasticised.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Maybe we can add 3d printed extrusion to the list of future practices when it comes to death and handling of the body

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 month ago (1 children)

For sure, and I’m sure a large part of it is less smoking and more sunscreen. That shit ages you.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sunscreen is probably less of a factor in this case. As I understand it, she has a skin condition that basically makes her avoid direct sunlight altogether.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

People with freckles tend to avoid sunlight, yeah.

[–] [email protected] 79 points 1 month ago

Fewer smokers. Smoking really ages you.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Is that you Commander Riker?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

You can bet your hurting back on that.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Likely at the behest of that bastard Berman.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

Her breasts don't look big enough for that.