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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I personally don't really care that much, but I guess this is mostly about "living stuff out openly" vs. "keeping your fetish in non-public spaces".

Yes, there are public mermaid events, but I don't think those are perceived as less weird.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Being a furry is not common. What's not common is treated as strange and potentionally harmful.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Being a furry is not common

The number of children who identify as a furry in your local grade school would shock you.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Yes, you're right, preschool and grade school children do identify as animals a lot and they're often not ashamed to express it, because it's much more tolerated at that age. It's viewed as wierd in adults though and it's much more rare among adult people. Probably partially because it's a juvenile trait and most people just grow out of that phase , partially because it's viewed as juvenile (and wierd), so many of those who do not grow out of it are afraid to express it. I find it harmless, so I wish for more tolerance.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago

Probably because old folks know that mermaids are a myth and don't identify as mermaids ( although ai think I saw a docuseries about a 30ish year old thinking he was one) Where as furries bleed the line between what might be fetish realm, and what might be some people actually believing/thinking they are a furry animal--which would be considered a delusion.

[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Somebody saying "I am a mermaid" would be looked at strangely too.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago

I don't think a sexy woman saying she's a mermaid would get strange looks.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

And dressing as a mermaid and going to mermaid convention to fuck other mermaids.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

That would be strange. Mermaids don't fuck each other, they get famously fucked by sailors.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I was more thinking of Melanie's Milk of the Siren (Warning: depiction of rape, revenge, and gore, not necessarily in that order. I don't normally give off warnings, but this video goes 0-100 REAL fucking fast).

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

It's like one of those irregular verbs. I've got a cool fantasy, you're a pervert, he's in jail, etc.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Probably because furries are a fetish and mermaids come from mythology

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Mermaids mythology originated as sailors' fetish.

[โ€“] [email protected] 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

50% of mythology is just fetish, just check out Greek mythology. People most definitely masturbated to mythology in the past based on the amount of fetish oozing out of the stories.

You can't tell me the ancient Greek equivalent to furries didn't think Zeus transforming into animals and fucking was hot.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

Can confirm. Watching 50 Shades of Greek told me way too many aspects of the Greek mythology. The Intro alone sums it up perfectly.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Bist because the idea is older doesn't make it any less weird.

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