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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

It seems we've been taught strict expectations about "functioning." When a machine doesn't get the resources it needs to do its function, it does not function, and it is not expected to function, if the mechanics are understood. We know a lot about what people need (still more to discover) but we're expected to "function" without having our needs met.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I need you to email this to my director at work immediately

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I struggled with this most of my life without knowing why, always feeling like I never measured up. Since being diagnosed and treated at 47 it made a huge difference. I set reasonable boundaries at work and I'm blessed with a sympathetic manager. He gives me tasks that allow me to play to my strengths and make a positive difference in the workplace.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

My Director likes to just write me up rather than to actually “lead.” Any chance your manager is hiring?

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