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Raines created a successful YouTube channel dedicated to her advocacy efforts rescuing foxes from fur farms.

Animal rescue activist and YouTube star Mikayla Raines has died by suicide, according to her husband. She was 29.

Ethan Raines announced her death in an emotional video he posted to her YouTube channel on Monday.

He said that for years his wife suffered from various mental health issues and struggled to cope with online criticism.

"She couldn’t bear what she was feeling any longer, and she ended her life," he said. "And it breaks my heart that someone who is selfless and devoted her life to animals could have so much negativity pointed at her."

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[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I've never heard the term "star" used for a Youtuber before.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 2 days ago

No, this was the SaveAFox person... This is like hearing if The Girl With The Dogs were to suddenly die tomorrow. I'm not sure I could handle so much good leaving the world so quickly.

They had been posting fundraising updates on their YouTube for the last couple weeks. I hope they can keep it going.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago

This one hits me hard. So sad. So goddamn sad. Seeing her and those foxes really cheered me up. Her death just stabs me right through the heart.

[–] [email protected] 39 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I believe she had BPD as well, which in itself often gets you targeted harassment online while also making you extremely sensitive to said harassment.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (12 children)

Wait what? People harass people online because they've got BPD? Like they specifically target people who are suffering from BPD? Why??

Fucking gross.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago (6 children)

I don't know her at all - is that BPD diagnosis something confirmed, thet she shared and all?

I have terribly mixed feelings about people with BPD.

On one side, lots of empathy: they often feel miserable and (not always, but) very often their BPD is the result of trauma or abuse.

On the other, and having lived it for a decade and a half: they can make the lives of people in their surroundings an absolute abominable horror-movie type of nightmare.

It's actually treatable but not all people with BPD seek treatment, it's a tough one.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

BPD is brutal on the people close to the person with the disorder. Absolutely brutal.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

There just aren't enough therapists learning how to administer dialectical behavior therapy. Very helpful for people with BPD, addiction problems, or PTSD.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I have an uncle who has been cut-off from the family because he refuses to treat his ~~BPD~~ bipolar (whoops) and his sisters got tired of taking care of/cleaning up after him. "Doesn't like how the medicine makes him feel". Pretty sure he started self-medicating with other stuff and found a woman who enables him, don't know exactly (it's been two decades since I last heard from him)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

If he was taking medicine for it, it likely wasn’t BPD; BPD doesn’t have any chemical treatments. Treatment is usually Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to try and regulate the person’s emotions and establish a more normalized baseline emotional state. But that requires a lot of personal effort, and many people with BPD refuse to follow through with it. And CBT only really helps with the emotional outbursts; It doesn’t do a lot for the abandonment issues, desires to self-harm, dissociation, etc…

Maybe he was bipolar? Bipolar is in the same category as schizophrenia, because the mania produces delusions and hallucinations. And it is treated with meds similar to schizophrenia.

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[–] [email protected] 36 points 3 days ago

As a long time supporter of SaveAFox, it's hard to really even process this. I am sure being an online personality to try and fundraise isn't easy, but never did I dream that there was such a degree of hate lobbed at Mikayla that she'd decide to end her own life. Someone so kind and devoted to the lives of creatures who are constantly exploited and cannot save themselves. It's just despicable, and all I can really hope for is that Mikayla's mission continues on in spite of such significant loss.

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