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[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That's why I love Star Trek

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

Instead it's an episode thats either racist (early TNG) or ablist… as a trek fan even I recognize these shortcomings. Also I'm pretty sure I remember a transphobic episode? Somewhere in voyager I think...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

South Park is not a show to watch if you don't have skin of iron.

They go out of their way to offend as many people as possible, but I think they do so in a way that's indiscriminate. They even try to offend themselves.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Its not so indiscriminate. Its just that theyre edgy libertarians and radical centrists. Its less about blanket making fun of everyone including themselves and that theyre smugly declaring "both sides bad" on most things.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

The viewer must be able to laugh at themselves, or at least be able to tolerate writers who are deliberately pushing people’s buttons. Sometimes there’s a good point hiding in the bullshit.

Or, just skip the show entirely. It’s great that their turnaround time is only six days(!), so they can address surprisingly current issues, but the show is past its prime anyway.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

getting back into arrested development and then getting to that episode

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

This is what I was thinking of. I didnt know where that image in my head was from, now I remember.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (6 children)

Issues like this make me wonder: what’s acceptable to joke about now that future generations will find shameful? Any suggestions, folks?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Going to throw this out there: self identification as a member of racial/ethnic/cultural group will become a hot button. Right now the left screams "cultural appropriation!" when this happens. But appropriating another gender is somehow okay. There's a real mismatch here in logic, and at some point in the future this will flip. Like, currently it's okay for me to say "I identify as a woman" but not "I identify as a black woman". How does that even make sense?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

I think that's mostly an American thing: they think that their “racial” categories are the same thing as ethnicity, and since race is defined by racists (who believe that it's an innate inherited trait), it's constrained by them too.

“I was born French, but now I consider myself Corsican.” is an uncommon but perfectly normal thing in Europe.

American racism is just absurd, even by racism standards. That absurdity even influences American anti-racism.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Some people are starting to shift their opinions on it, but jokes about men being raped (especially in prison) are weirdly accepted.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'd hope it'd be things relating to our treatment of non-human animals. There's a pretty good talk making that case (not so much in terms of jokes, but in general)

https://youtu.be/N6w3A7E1Hw8

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Another good one! Thanks!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You should be safe if you don't make fun of others. It's not necessary to ridicule a specific person or group to make a joke.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

True. Generally speaking, punching down is not okay.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Who is considered weird and or crazy?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (3 children)

That’s what I have a hard time with. Antivaxxers? Trump supporters? Callous billionaires? They all seem like fair game to me.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Think about the words you and other people use and what they actually mean. Are you using a word that refers to a certain group of people who are part of some marginalised group? “Gay” used to be a very common insult, particularly in South Park. What about “lame”, “dumb”, “tard”, etc.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Antivaxxers? Trump supporters? Callous billionaires?

Science deniers and right wingers has never been on the right side of the history, so these you mentioned will be remembered as the idiots they are, and Billionaires will continue to exist but will be remembered but not in the Star Trek name dropping Elon Musk kind of way, but in the way we remember other idiotic and callous billionares from a century ago.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (2 children)

In the case of previous groups, it's usually persecuted and marginalized groups. So I don't think that fits.

I'm already seeing terms like "stupid", "dumb", "crazy" and other terms to refer to conditions people didn't choose, especially mental ones, being used less and frowned upon occasionally. So maybe "crazy/insane" if we actually recognize it wildly as an issue or treat it.

Online? I'm seeing a lot more hate and memes against furries cropping up that I hope goes away. Not that that's new, but I think it's shifting towards them since it's become unacceptable in most circles to denigrate sexual and gender identities.

Otherwise I think the question is: Who is society denigrating that is both a marginalized group and not actively/actually harmful?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

The thing with stupid/crazy is inevitably a euphemism treadmill more than any meaningful shift. We still need to deal with people who make absolutely terrible decisions in ways that are both shockingly unexpected and predictably exploitable. Calling those people "wild" instead of the r-word won't change that they dislocated their skeleton doing some obviously pointless stunt for momentary clout.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Furries is a good one. There's definitely a lot of hate. "My coworker's daughter said they were talking about putting litter boxes in the classrooms!"

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm going to hope it's about wanting to kill ourselves all the time, because if it becomes taboo I hope it's because we have actually managed to make life better and thus suicide rates drop, but I honestly don't know if we will get any better tbh

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

“There are no taboos against taking one’s life here,’ said the Night Haunter. ‘Many do. This is not a happy world. But it can be a better one. By killing yourself, you take the easy way out, you encourage others to do the same. You might think you add yourself to a statistic, but your self-murder is much more than that. Every suicide adds to the rot weakening your culture. Every life abandoned is a signal that change can never be effected. You throw your existence away, and in doing so lessen the value of humanity.”

Proceeds to de-skin suicidal woman slowly.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

Heh, as someone who deals with suicidal ideation daily, our collective devaluation of humanity drives my disgust. While our planet burns, human civilizations embrace imminent extinction (and the irrelevance of all current culture) to preserve the current power hierarchy.

Nothing we do today will matter including those efforts to reduce the effects of a looming cataclysm and population correction until we collectively achieve a high threshold that significantly reduces its effects. Nothing in this case includes both my choice to kill myself and my choice to live another day.

This time doesn't matter until a huge number of us decide to collectively make it matter.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Twin Peaks is safe 🙏 Bless Denise

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I though you said you were from Iran.

But seriously I don't think that episode was harmful.

Douglas is just a general asshole.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

The character is an asshole AND that episode is transphobic. More telling is the creator (Graham Linehan) who is a vocal TERF. I don't really want to pollute this space with his toxicity, but search if you're curious.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Can you tell me what's transphobic about it?

When I first saw it I would have thought it was trans-supporting, other than the detail that (IIRC) the trans woman was played by a cisgender woman.

The entire point of it is that the only thing that is stopping Douglas from being genuinely, incredibly happy, becoming a better person and living an actually fulfilling life in the end is his inability to accept a historical detail that had made absolutely no difference to his relationship. And, since Douglas might be the worst person in the world, we see him destroy that because of his own weird machismo values. Just when we think he's completely changed as a character, his shittiness on this one thing, emblematic of his incredibly toxic masculinity, comes crashing down on him. This is, darkly, funny. We are abruptly reminded that Douglas is an actual monster, to the point of fist-fighting with the person he loves. "Character is briefly happy but previous behaviour and/or shittiness of their character ruins it for themselves" is like at like 30% of Linehan's sitcom plotlines.

If there's something I missed - and it's been a few years, and thoroughly agree that Linehan's subsequent behaviour justifies examining his previous work for ulterior motives - I would like to know it. Genuinely.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

More telling is the creator (Graham Linehan) who is a vocal TERF.

well sad to see/hear. But I'm still not convinced that the episode in its entirety is transphobic.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

It's the b-plot from what I recall, it's not the main focus of the episode.

It was written long before his TERF days and so it's not exactly hateful, just ignorant and it's comparable to a lot of other ways comedy treated trans characters from the era - The League Of Gentleman was much, much worse than the IT Crowd imo, and that was a recurring character in every episode.

It's rather the issue that while Matt Berry has distanced himself from the episode Linehan actually still defends it as pro-trans.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Nah I don't think so. Episode kinda got me a bit attracted to the female character ngl and I'm a hetero guy.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Shout outs to Lily Simpson for showcasing just how bad these shows really are.

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