This post and thread gives me (back) so much hope. I always hoped for something like described here. But I never came anywhere close and so I have lost the hope over time. I was thinking in the direction of "I just want someone to share my life with. It will work out to be ok somehow." But some recent events and post like this give me back the hope to find a the person I really want to share time with. It also brings me the motivation to work on myself, so to be more like I would like to be. Thanks you all.
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I hope you find your person.
Wish my wife had felt this way.
well, I'm glad someone out there has what I don't, at least it exists
This reminds me of that twilight zone episode where the guys buys the love potion for $1 and then the girl he likes becomes his wife and then she is so obsessed with him the he can’t take it so he buys the other potion that makes the effects of the love potion go away, but the guys charges him $1,000 for the anti-love potion.
It's so easy to fix that situation, you just need to drink the $1 potion too
Five-head move
I go through phases of this with my husband. We've been married for 13 years, and he is legit my best friend, and I find him to be just unbelievably hot af. I'll go weeks where I'm just like "goddamn, this is mine?"
And then I also go through less intense periods. He's still my partner through life and I'd get his back through anything and everything, but it's less "omg you're so hot" googly eyes and more like "this is the life we've built together and I'm so glad I did it with you".
But then a few weeks later I'm in crush mode.
Obligatory of course we have our periods where we annoy the fuck out of each other, but it's usually short-lived and we communicate and work through it. I think that's just a realistic fact of marriage.
He has made me such a better person than I was when I met him though. I think about that constantly.
I'm 16 years in and this describes me and my wife. I really struggle being around people who complain about their spouse. I just don't relate, lol. Yeah she annoy me some times but I would take being a little annoyed than being alone. I also love to hear about people who love their spouses. My best friend only ever says positive things about his wife and it makes it enjoyable comparing spouses.
I've been married 9 years, together for 16, and this really sums it up for me. Just this morning the way they looked at me in bed when we woke up and I was smitten.
Aren't those moments the fucking best? When it's such a "simple thing" to wake up next to someone and just feel that calm security or even the "fuck yeah you're so goddamned attractive and you chose me too!"
She's actually in a court room and he's filing a restraining order
I wish I will one day have a partner that makes me feel this.
Lol idk that seems beautiful and whatnot but not very realistic.
He surely doesn't feel the same about her.