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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

GCHQ. Need I say more...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

As far as my knowledge goes, she went to a private school then got pregnant with, like, 20 or 19-ish. Then she did lose a little control of her life. But I think that she might've been successful with her career and may have gotten her life under control.

I don't know if she was the smartest kid, but she definitely got good grades. My class was honestly full of lazy people, including me. I've changed a lot, so I would say that I would now be the smartest kid, because I was one of the first who actually did realize how tough life is.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 months ago (2 children)

It was me. I was the smartest kid in my class for most of school. Then I dropped out of college and now I fix cars for a living.

Not saying that's a bad thing, the world needs mechanics and I'm paid well enough to live, but the sense of lost or wasted potential is overwhelming.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Dont feel bad, the smartest kid in our school now pumps gas.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

I wouldn't worry about it. I was one of the gifted kids, got my Bachelors then Masters in Computer Science with good grades. But also I got massively depressed and it took me a while to get a job after graduation. One of the more valuable lessons I learned from that experience was that I was often not seeing the forest thru the trees. After all, going to college is just a means of hopefully ensuring that you have an easier time covering the cost of living long term. So, overall, if you're happy and don't have to constantly worry about your bills there was no real loss of potential.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

He’s married, three kids, great wife, manages a team of salespeople.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

They got a PhD in science from a well-known university and worked on research for a while. Last I heard, they got married and ended up selling real-estate.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

I have no idea. I've only kept up with 4 or 5 people from high school.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

She was killed in a traffic accident senior year.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Well, fucking shit man.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

He got a degree in architectural design and now tours the country playing the fiddle. He could have been anything he wanted and that's the life he chose, but I respect him for it. He's happy and that's what really counts.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

One became a high school teacher and another works in tech. Not too shocking I guess

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Looks like he's a Ph.D bridge engineer. Good on him.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I went on to enlist in the military, got out after one enlistment, and eventually became a machinist and shipwright welder. I'm working on my SCUBA & underwater welding qualifications.

In a high-school out in the boondocks of Texas, I was easily the smartest kid. Everyone else was concerned with their parents farm, chores, football, and dating.

Nobody was interested in reading or higher education, and the teachers put no effort into encouraging students to reach higher.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Went to the US and became a martial arts competitor

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

He became addicted to drugs and fell off. Last time i heard anything off him, he lives in south america somewhere as a street performer and found love. So i dunno.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 months ago

it's reading lemmy right now :p

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

He went on to become an internationally renowned heart surgeon

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 months ago

Everyone left. There’s nothing the state can offer to keep the most productive people. Most ended up going to California.

The ones that returned became educators.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Honestly don’t know. In grade school we had a classmate who was always at the top of our entire batch. As expected she graduated as valedictorian. We all took the entrance exam for one of the coveted high schools and surprisingly she didn’t pass…and I got in lol. She kinda faded away after that. She’s probably fine though, just didn’t meet expectations going into high school.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Damn. That's kinda why I'm not a fan of exams. People have test anxiety. In a lot of my math classes, some of the smartest people in there can't take tests for shit because of so much test anxiety they have. This person probably had the qualifications to get in but unfortunate that the exam was too big of a hurdle.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I gradually, but absolutely fell the fuck apart after middle/high school. I'm working with a therapist and job coaches so I can get my shit reasonably back together. As it turns out, Gifted kids are most likely just neurodivergent kids who would really like someone to see them as something other than test scores and probably are smiling through a bunch of unaddressed problems. I hope the other TAG kids from my year are doing way better.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 5 months ago

No idea, I moved away and moved on. Have a great life. Don’t care what the others are doing. Hope they’re well.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

She was my coworker, but I left her when I moved.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

She is currently a doctor, married, has a kid, and is doing quite well for herself.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago

I got a job as a software engineer and I live in one of the major cities in the US pretty comfortably.

(I was high school valedictorian, objectively average in college, and am maybe the high end of average in my career. My high school set a pretty low bar.)

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I mean we had a few that were al up there. From what I recall Jamie dropped out and had a couple of kids, Mark still lives at home 'cause he's got no job and Just plays guitar and smokes a lot of pot. Jay committed suicide. Brandon OD'd and died.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago

Should’ve known we’d never get far.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

What the hell is going on??

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Society doesn't reward intelligence and drive, together or singly. Society rewards mediocrity (make boss look good, not yourself) and undercutting.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The cruelest dream - reality.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Chances thrown, nothing's free

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Longing for what used to be. Still, it’s hard

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

[Guitar Solo]

[–] [email protected] 60 points 5 months ago (1 children)

He worked as a chemical engineer until he was killed by police over non-existant drugs. None of the officers involved got into any trouble.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 5 months ago
[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

In my class/homeroom? I'm sitting on the couch. Just trying not to let life get me down. In my grade? Fuck if I know. I did know like the top 5 in my grade, of 600+ students, but I didn't keep in touch once we went off to college. At least 2 went to Ivy League schools for undergrad. Don't know about the other 3.

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