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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (3 children)

So are we likely to see some aurora tonight?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Market run achieved. I have baklava to eat with my tea

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Calm down people the Sun is just having a little tanty.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I'm getting the hang of using watercolours. It's exciting. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒsrsly, it's cool . I'll post some pics when I do full page.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Please do! I'd love to see your art!!! πŸ’œ

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 6 months ago (4 children)

So, I have a small guilty pleasure now: I downloaded tiktok and am loving all the videos with pets tbh.

TW: DVBut I watch one video by an Aussie lady about women's rights and whatnot, and now tiktok thinks that's all I want to watch. 😭 Like, 4b movement stuff, the rate of homicides, etc. It's interesting but like, also triggering of course. I'm in the process of re-teaching the algorithm or whatever.

But I also feel like I don't have a right to talk about my experience, not because of what they've said or anything like that. But because my abusive ex was male and male presenting for the VAST majority of our relationship, until the last 6 months where they only came out to me about being a tran-woman. So, like, they're part of this super marginalised group, having told their friends I was transphobic. I don't feel like I can talk about it with anyone (besidesy dad and my partner), without, like, playing into that lie they told. I believe they are, of course, trans, but also that they use it as an excuse to not take accountability for their heinous actions. That if I did file a police report, that I'd be called transphobic and a false reporter. What a strange position to be in. Just needed to have a small ranty rant about it, because I haven't seen anyone else anywhere have, or talk about, an experience like mine without also being transphobic. I always feel like if I talk about it, if I don't use the right pronouns, or if I clarify "well they were male, but are now female" it's about women-on-women DV. Which, it wasn't, but is it?

Ugh, just gonna keep saving up for a psych appointment and hopefully I can start feeling better about being in this tiny bubble of one.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

A dickhead is a dickhead, no matter what gender they are/were/present as. Bad behaviour/manners should be called out. There's far too much victim blaming happening. Not a situation I've ever faced, so please take that for what its worth, if anything.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Them being trans doesn’t mean that what they did to hurt you wasn’t also abusive. Women - including trans women - are entirely capable of abuse.

I believe you. You deserved better.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

It's odd, I watch practically no hyper anxiety producing news anymore, had a bad nightmare about a big terrorist bombing in Africa

don't nightmares come after the stressful event is over?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago (2 children)

@Seagoon_ So I really slept in this morning.

Is everyone's electrical gadgets still working? No big blackouts?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

everything seems fine and normal here

Ted Cat is starving and complaining, he can't believe he's not allowed to eat Bill's food. They are both on a diet and slowly losing weight.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Just a reminder to everyone if people are asking you for free tech support you're good until monday just blame the solar storm.

Edit that didn't last long. Just got a call from mum.. netflix not working. She had turned off the wifi :(

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

Why yes I can clearly see your TV is unplugged but yes it is not working because of electromagnetic disturbances

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The new Sonos app is.....confusing

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

Gym achieved. Gentle gym, but gym.

Now I can slow it down a tad

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

I know it's literally light rail but watching how far the other states will contort a sentence to avoid saying 'tram' is fucking hilarious to me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Is Biggest Morning Tea stuff happening at the moment? There's an event I might go to happening today and I think it's part of the morning tea stuff

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

Rebel Yell came on just as I got to the last hill this morning, doggo kicked into gear and started galloping instead of his usual trot, and I ended up getting a PB. Sub 25m/5k, which I'm very happy with.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Was supposed to go visit friends this weekend but the replacement busses will make the journey almost 4 hours one way.

Fucking hell. Was really looking forward to it as well.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

I hate that shit so much. Makes seeing my Dad in the SE that much more difficult. Totally get ya, hopefully, one day, there will be actual PT at some point lol

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Thumb wound day 6. I don't believe I'll need to amputate

spoiler

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Draw eyeballs on it

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

A mighty fine scar! You have done battle with the GODS and have come out with an epic scar to show! Slay, King!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

I couldn't have done it without the love and support of everyone here ❀️

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Croatia have got this shit locked up with this year. I’ve only seen final 1 so far but nothing else was half as memorable as baby lasagna. Though looks like cypress’s approach of β€œrent an Aussie” might pay dividends this year!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

Finland’s song is pretty memorable too, I’ve only seen semi final 1. Ireland was good. But Croatia is the strong favourite.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

He beats me up, out of love πŸ˜‚

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (2 children)

My reddit accounts got caught up in r/australia's ban evasion AI nonsense and I got mega banned, no more helpful comments for people bad at google I guess. I liked being helpful there. It'll give me more time to be helpful elsewhere I guess.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I'm sorry but why were you mega banned? Explain like I'm stewpid.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

What I think happened:

  • First account banned on r/australia only by AI for inciting violence on r/australia for technical discussion of BJJ. I appealed the ban.
  • Second account, I messaged the r/australia mods to ban the account so I didn't get busted for ban evasion. Ban given.
  • First account has AI ban revoked. I eventually make a comment on r/australia, ban evasion bots see the IP or email address attached to the account matches their shitlist, bots go into ban evasion mode, accounts get permanently suspended.
  • I had about seven reddit accounts. A bunch of novelty ones made during lockdown. I requested bans from r/australia on these accounts, I only got temp 28 day bans on some. I eventually made a comment on r/australia, got the ban evasion message from r/australia auto-mod, replied impolitely that I'd already reqested a ban months ago and I was glad to be banned. All my reddit accounts got nuked. New accounts from IP or email get nuked. New account from temp email and vpn is fine.

i think.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

You’ve described my relationship with carsaustralia perfectly. Just with a bit of added snark towards Mazda diesels.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Organised myself a car for the day. Organised my shopping lists...got to the goget bay...forgot the little swipe card thing.

An hour later back home and starting over again. Don't try to do things before your morning coffee kiddoes

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I wonder if this geomagnetic storm is setting off fire evacuation alarms in the city, or if people are just extra unlucky burning their toast this morning.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

There has not been a particularly high volume of alarms this morning, it must just be randomly near you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

Just an unlucky streak for the buildings near me I guess.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I can't call in any strategems.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

That community basically cyber bullied Sony into retracting that requirement lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Did the grid get messed up? I ran around plugging in all the battery packs last night haha

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

Yeah I wonder if there have been any anomalous readings at the peer companies. But as far as I know nothing much yet except aurora

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