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[–] [email protected] 42 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I WFH and I do the “business mullet”. Acceptable shirt + pajama pants. Business on top, nap on the bottom.

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[–] [email protected] 105 points 6 months ago (3 children)

If a business wants a particular outfit to be worn then they should provide the uniforms in their dollar.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago
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[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 months ago (1 children)

See, that's why I can't dress nice. I'm not lazy; this is an organized protest to better mankind.

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 6 months ago (4 children)

And yet their makeup is impeccable. Article says "young people", but curiously only cute women in the pictures.

"It looks cute, and yet, you don't lose that feeling of sexiness." Ah, the all important feeling of sexiness in the office that women strive for.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It's worth saying that "sexy" is not translated well in other languages and cultures. It was very common in Thailand and Malaysia while I lived there to hear parents and relatives say their child was 'sexy'. I wouldn't be surprised if it also made its way into Chinese-English parlance as "visually appealing" rather than "I'd fuck that".

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago

Tang ping homies, tang ping

[–] [email protected] 56 points 6 months ago

"It's so convenient for both work and home. I have essentially reached a state where the office and my home have become one," she said.

This is what happens when companies expect you to live and breath for their bottom line.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

I'm sure they still cost loads.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Wouldn't it be awesome if millions of people could choose to work in a T-shirt and boxer shorts whenever they wanted?

Companies just have to allow WFH and that could happen.

Nah...

[–] [email protected] 27 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I have to say, I find it weird how focused Americans are on dress codes in offices. In Germany that's pretty much not a thing, unless you have direct contact to customers (bank teller, etc).

Granted, as a developer standards are lax anyway, but I don't even own a dress shirt or suit.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

I'm American and that describes my job experience across 3 industries pretty closely:

  • first industry, sometimes client-facing: polo/dress shirt

  • second, client-facing: suit and tie, clean shaven (I quit this one pretty quick)

  • third, rarely talk to clients virtually: don't look homeless. I wear a hoodie most days I'm in the office and once didn't shave for 3 months

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Could you get away with whatever you went to sleep in though? That's the advantage of WFH. Get up, do your work, don't bother getting dressed unless there's a meeting. If you need a shower and a change, you can do it on your break.

I agree that American office dress codes are bullshit, but being allowed to be as comfortable as you like in your clothes is, I am guessing, frowned upon even in Germany.

I worked a hybrid schedule. I didn't bother getting dressed until the other half of the day I went into the office. And I was more productive at home because I was more comfortable in every way including the fact that I could just do my work in boxers and a T-shirt.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Not getting dressed at least somewhat is a sign of depression.

When I still went to the office, I wore the exact same cloth I would wear when I was just going outside. Clean, not significantly more holes than intended.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Nonsense. It's a sign of comfort. Why should I get dressed if I don't have to go anywhere? I'll get dressed if I need to go somewhere.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

It can be either. Things like thar absolutely are warning signs of depression, and ignoring that is dangerous. Doesn't mean everyone (or even the majority) of those that do have depression, but that doesn't change that it is a warning sign.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

That's fair, but this other person seems to think it's my duty to get dressed in the morning from the continued conversation I'm having with them.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

You get up and work. Unwashed, dirty clothes. That's not comfort, that's concerning.

And yes, you and your clothes are dirty after sleeping in them. You sweat about half a liter every night.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Okay? Your clothes are dirty after wearing them all day too. I shower and put on clean clothes before I go to bed.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

... And then you sleep in them, thus making them dirty. That's not that hard.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago

Why do you care so much about what I do? If you don't like my hygiene habits, stay away from me. This should not be difficult for you.

[–] [email protected] 113 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Dress codes have always been prohibitively expensive. When I was a young man getting my occupational feet wet in the nineties it was pretty much, "We're gonna pay you three dollars an hour and we require three piece suits at all times."

[–] [email protected] 46 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

I'm suddenly thankful my business casual attire can be picked up for like 5 bucks at goodwill.

Hell, for my promotion to my first office job, my previous manager straight up bought me a bunch of cheap polos on his own dollar, basically saying "don't embarrass me for suggesting you for the position". Wore those for like a whole year or more before buying my own for cheap.

A full suit? Fuck. Good luck thrifting one that fits well without tailoring, if you can even find matching jacket and pants, let alone several.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 months ago (2 children)

I have never found pants that didn't have to be hemmed no matter what size my waist is. I've lost a huge amount of weight- gone from obese to the average weight for my BMI and it's still true. It's infuriating. I'm not tiny either, I'm 5'9".

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Must be tough finding pants with eight or ten legs (depending on how you categorize the two arms and eight tentacles)

[–] [email protected] 14 points 6 months ago

You have no idea.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 6 months ago

Lmao that’s great. The quotes of them describing their outfits especially

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 months ago

This is the best summary I could come up with:


But a new trend flooding Chinese social media takes casual to the next level, with young workers sharing videos of themselves wearing their "grossest" clothes to the office.

Experts say it's part of a wider rebellion by young people against the rigidity of the workplace and the grueling working hours it takes to succeed.

It refers to the changes people can go through when they start working a 9-to-5 job — ending the day feeling lethargic and giving up on their appearance due to fatigue.

Social media users have joked that if you wear your favorite outfit to work, it'll be contaminated by the "Ban Wei" as the office vibe creeps into your personal life.

Yet, the same people showcasing their gross work outfits are those who wear more fashionable attire for social occasions, Jack Porteous of China-focused consultancy firm TONG Global told Business Insider.

Short of just "lying flat" or "letting it rot," the "gross outfits" are perhaps the closest Chinese professionals can get to venting their grievances without outright quitting their jobs.


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