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To me, money isn’t everything. It’d be nice if I got something that cost a lot, but I’d also be fine with something cheap as long as it’s high-quality and not like a Temu ring or something.

We got each other the same ring off Amazon for $12.😂 😅

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

$2,158.57. It's a 1.06 carat ice blue sapphire

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

About $2000

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

$100

Moissinite

Rings costing more is a scam

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Yup, eBay customized ring, completely replaceable. We saved the money from the ring cost and put it towards a down payment. 1000% sure it was a better use of money

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My grandmother gave me hers, so free. But I ended up getting a wedding band for somewhere in the neighborhood of $1500, made custom to match the engagement ring which was alternating sapphires and diamonds. Lab grown small diamonds, but I think it was 4 of them with 3 sapphires, plus a 18k gold band.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No engagement rings, by our values those are kinda corny. Wedding rings we got from a jewelry factory that supplies much of the country, which happens to be local to where we lived at the time. Got them at factory price. Not quite $12, but not much higher. :)

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I got a Stirling silver claddagh ring for my wife's engagement ring, i think it is $20 something. Our wedding rings were Stirling silver bands, $35 each and we had then engraved, which i think was $15 each.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Less than $1000. Moissanite > Diamond

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The life of my great grandmother technically, though I'm sure she would have given it to me anyway.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I think I spent 400 for engagement ring and wedding bands together. Over time, it became clear that none of the rings matched, and only one of the three is quality material.

I wish I had spent more on the engagement ring to get a setting that doesn't stick out so much, it's too stabby and scratchy. I'd also want to track down a lab grown diamond if I had it to do over again.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We went down to a pawn shop and I think we spent about $350 for both rings. They're both beautiful rings with real diamonds and a couple other stones

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Smart move... Between wedding and ring, that's down payment for a house

With that being said... A bit over 6k 🤡

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

About $4000 for a 1.5ct lab grown diamond+band.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Haha.. Damn that's what I got but it was like 5 years ago and 6k

I am assuming this is more recent purchase?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

If I got the maths right I paid the equivalent of € 510 for the pair. That was in '09 or '10, the actual cost was R$ 1100.

mathsAcc. to this gov calculator 1100 reals in June 2009 have the same purchase power as 3277 reals in April 2025. The current real/euro conversion rate is 6.42:1, so 3277/6.42 = 510.
...it was a really nice pair. A shame the relationship didn't deserve it.

EDIT: worth mentioning it was an engagement, not a marriage.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I really can't recall but not a lot at all. To avoid the whole blood-diamond thing we bought a vintage one from a charity, where it had been donated.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Just got married today and the ring was 200-300 USD but that was mainly the stone which is a big pretty opal

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Congratulations! 🎉

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Not much at all

Money doesn't matter to us

We went back and forth with ideas about rings, but we kept coming back to this one

I bought this box separately, so that we can keep the wedding band nicely for the when we tie the knot

I've had the rings for a while now, and she doesn't know! I know she'll love it, it's the ring she liked the most out of all the ones we looked at

In a few weeks I'm going to give it to her

We got engaged months and months ago, but we're stuck doing the long-distance thing and our time together is precious

She's is going to lose her mind, and I can't wait!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

About $1200 back in 2010. Got a nice enough ring she'd feel proud to show it to people, but didn't pay any more money than I'd saved up since I decided to propose.

To keep costs down I got a 'perfect' diamond with an occlusion you couldn't see without a jewelers loop, and had sapphires on the ring to add interest without increasing the size of the diamond.

I'm happy with the decision still 15 years later.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

i bought an engagement ring for around 10000 DKK / 1550 USD. Which I thought was a lot, but I really liked the ring! For myself I bought a ring for 1000 DKK

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