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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

Is the parking lot gendered?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Wait till she finds out her bathroom at home is also coed...

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 week ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 68 points 1 week ago (6 children)

there is an all gender bathroom at a business near me that has a picture of a male, female, and disabled person in a wheelchar on it.

i giggle every time i pass by it because i am handicapped gender.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (14 children)

ah yes, the 3 genders. Rectangle, triangle, and wheelchair

edit: a long pipe is also a gender I guess

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I welcome unisex bathrooms but that's kind of a false comparison. Airplane bathrooms aren't communal, only one person can use the room at a time

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

How do you define "communal"? In Europe it's common to have fully enclosed "stalls" (basically rooms in themselves) - either with their own sinks or the sinks are indeed outside and shared by all.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

In NA the stalls tend to be open above and below, never mind urinals which are just out in the open maybe with small "blinders" in between if you're lucky. Personally, I don't care, but I could see people being more shy in that situation.

In bars/clubs I imagine there'd be an issue of more people taking up stalls to hook up since you wouldn't need to be sneaky about entering/leaving the washroom any more, but maybe that's just trashy behavior that can't be helped anyways.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

I looked up pictures of this airport's bathrooms and it's a standard shared sink counter situation. The toilets are, of course, private.

What you described exists here as well but I've never seen it in an airport

[–] [email protected] 191 points 1 week ago (9 children)

The bathroom in my house is all genders

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (3 children)

i bet he has a gender neutral bathroom in his house.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago

Fellas, is it gay to use a gender-neuttal bathtroom?

[–] [email protected] 141 points 1 week ago (14 children)

Why are americans so obsessed with toilets? Do they start the potty-training too early or too late?

[–] [email protected] 122 points 1 week ago (5 children)

The GoP needed a cultural political weapon. So they picked the weakest minority, gays and trans people. To use as a distractions, while they rob the public and destroy the country.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I know that the GoP politize the weird toilet obsession to use as a wedge (as they do with pretty much everything), but it feels like it has been a thing for much longer than that.

[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 week ago (1 children)

This isn't about trans people specifically, but the very existence of gendered bathrooms dates back to hilariously sexist 1800s ideas about how men and women should only be allowed to coexist at home. No surprise that religious fundamentalists continue to weaponize private spaces against anyone that doesn't fit their norms.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I was thinking about the very same thing yesterday and decided that men wanted to show their wieners to other men but not to women. I couldn't find any other reason for gendered toilets😅

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Culture war has been their go to strategy since at least the Nixon administration.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm sure all the gender stuff is fueled by the right, but what about that huge gap in the door where you can look people in the eyes as they shit?

Or the water level?

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have gender-neutral toilets in my house, so do all my friends

In fact, every household I've been in had gender-neutral toilets

They worked out fine

I've had creepy guys stare at my dick in men-only toilets, I've never had a problem with it in gender-neutral

It stands to reason that the problem is segregated toilets

(actually, it's men, but I'm sure even here there will be the "nOt AlL mEn!" types)

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

"Outside" is the original unisex bathroom

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Can we just get a bathroom design where they are a wall of stalls with a urinal and toilet inside and the hand washing station is on the outside without a door blocking the path? I hate bathroom doors after washing hands, especially when they don't have a way to open the doors without touching the handle. Just put the sinks outside the bathroom.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (4 children)

No one needs urinals.

Case in point: No one has one in their home.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Home bathrooms are single-occupancy, plus most people don't have the room. They're definitely beneficial for higher volume places as add much more capacity for less space, and act as an "express lane" of sorts.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Ah but the toilet sitters do appreciate how much less urine is on the seats and around the bowl. I would have a urinal in my home if I was to remodel my bathroom. They are convenient.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

You can also just sit to pee, so that there's less urine on the seats and around the bowl. No need for a urinal, which also has splash back.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have been to places with this layout.

Private stalls. Sinks and hand washing open and visible to the hallway. Nobody feels threatrned or uncomfortable.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 week ago

Nobody feels threatrned or uncomfortable

And that makes conservatives feel threatened and uncomfortable.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Airports are infrastructure buildings. This is like seeing a billboard telling you not to hatecrime gay people and boycotting the highway.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Wait, gay people are allowed to use highways? Next you'll be saying gay trash is mixed with my trash in the truck. My pearls have been clutched so hard they're powder.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Family bathrooms are also great. Once flew with my intellectually disabled sister who fucking fingerpainted a rest stop stall on a previous trip when my mother broke her arm chasing her to the bathroom and she was left to her own devices. This time I brought gloves and wet wipes and there was a little suite kinda thing. I didn't need the child size toilet or the breastfeeding couch but the nice big accessible area around the adult toilet was good to have. She wasn't constipated that time so I didn't have to stop her from digging it out manually again but man; if I'd had to I totally could've! 10/10 would use a family bathroom again.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Disabled bathrooms are also spacious, to allow wheelchair users easy access.

[–] [email protected] 96 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I love the unisex bathrooms at the Kansas City airport!

Floor to ceiling stalls that I don't have to dance around in to open and close the doors. Large open spaces to move between stalls and the sinks.

Sure, the open stall count and lights aren't reliable and the workmanship on the sinks and soap dispensers is pretty crummy, but the layout and convenience are fantastic!

[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 week ago

And it’s not like there are only unisex bathrooms there. It’s easy to choose another one if you prefer.

But why bother. They’re more private than most other public bathrooms in the US. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I fly through KC often and the gender neutral bathrooms are right past security, so I go in there nearly every time to at least wash my hands. There used to be a tiny jolt of surprise when I saw a man in there just because I’ve been so conditioned against seeing that for over 30 years, but that’s gone away because why tf do I care who sees me wash my hands?!

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