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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Need to make a drink but I'm under a sleeping cat. Halp

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (27 children)

You get to obtain the skills/attributes of a gold medal Olympian. Which sport are you choosing?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Water polo. For the physique, fitness and naughtiness.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

YESSS CORRECT THANK YOU!

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Disappointed to see no parkour.

Fine, weightlifting or running

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Your mumma!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

This is why I hate other guitarists, from the "guitarpedals" reddit. Context is the dude is using a digital effects unit (like the one I grabbed a little while ago) instead of analog guitar pedals:

"How does thing sound so good and make me feel so dirty at the same time? I imagine it’s the same feeling you get hiring a $2k per hour escort."

I hate these people so, so fucking much. It's cringe as fuck. Fuck right off.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

yeah mate, you're so edgy and cool with money to throw on hookers πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Always love the analog vs. digital arguments.

Same goes for hardware synths whether they're VA's etc. and vstis/fx.

My opinion: who cares, if it sounds good and you're happy that's the end of the discussion lol.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (6 children)

As of 2 days ago I'm now an uncle. Bro and SIL had a bubs.

Will be interesting to see how the dynamic plays out from here.

Ol' boy bankrolled and organised the whole thing (IVF + the rest) as he was in an adjacent field. Ol' boy and girl went in to see her and bubs yesterday and SIL didn't let them see it lol.

It's her bubs and she has every right to dictate what happens but having the p's mention that 5 (!) times within the space of an hour I'm finding it odd. I don't know what the etiquette is really. There are no issues b/w them and her or bro so I'm not sure what to make of it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There's a trend atm among new mums exerting their control over things like visitors. On one hand, I sort of understand protecting your space as a new mum, been there, done that and felt all the feels that go with it. But some are taking it to the extreme and don't realise that they are alienating their support networks and then complain that nobody has supported them.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

This is so sad. It should be a time of bringing family closer together with love and joy and she's just handing out confusion and sadness.

With a mum like that bro and baby needs all the friends they can get. Right now be a good sib. Say nothing about what is happening but do listen.

and hugs

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This lady sounds like a manipulative control freak, and will use her baby as a tool to control your brother and your parents further, if not drive a bigger wedge between them.

Beware.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I think you're absolutely right.

Gonna keep my distance a bit heh.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

My poor credit card is completely maxed out, and once it is paid off tomorrow I have more stuff to go on it. It rarely gets to the limit, but a single month with a dental implant, bond payment and a month's rent in advance on top of the normal spending certainly adds up!

Having my van means I will be able to pick up the queen size bed frame and bedside tables I've decided on, so I'll take that and whatever other odds and ends I can fit in so I can drop off at the new place when I pick up the keys on Friday. Then I have lots of measurements to take so I can plan some furniture layouts and buy a few more things. I wasn't really planning on buying as much stuff as I am, but I've realised a lot of the stuff I have is getting pretty old, and a lot of it was also "temporary" cheap stuff that has hung around too long and isn't really worth moving. Things like the cheap Kmart desk I've been using as a dressing table, which was broken and re-glued during my last move and probably won't survive another!

Edit to clarify: I'm not borrowing to afford my spending, I do have the money in another account, I just use the cards for buyer protection & points. Using credit cards to finance anything outside of a major (probably life threatening) emergency is a Very Bad Thing and will lead you to ruin.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

I hope it all goes smoothly. I forgot which one you ended up getting… Are you liking the look of the new place?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

May I ask how much the implant was? I need about 3 and am trying to gauge prices.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

agree that credit cards are a bane

i can't help wondering how many people live beyond their means

i don't deny it bothers me a little, and really, it's just a little, that because I "look" poor and don't spend people think i'm poor ( and thus pathetic and beneath them ) No, I'm just being sensible.

It's great that you are doing home things. πŸ™‚

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I am stoked to see Dutton lose his seat, but I can’t help but see this as a massive loss for australia. An effective opposition is critical for democracy. And it appears like the greens have been totally wiped out too.

Am also fairly frustrated by the analysis so far. Coulda seen this coming: bloke with the personality of a rock and policies from the mirror universe fails to win voter confidence. Who coulda seen that coming? Oh wait, anyone with half a brain!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

I agree. An effective opposition is incredibly important, lest the governing party come to believe they have carte blanche to do whatever the fuck they want, assuming the public is completely beholden to them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

The teals might be that check now

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's a massive gain for Australia. When they lost their moderate seats to the Teals, the party room became disproportionately alt-right despite existing in a voting system that demands moderates.

The cooker influence told them that Trumpism was the way forward and to win government again, when that only worked by disenfranchising voters. When everyone votes, a political culture that thrives on the extreme works the opposite.

American politicians need to go overboard to compete for attention just to get people to turn up and vote based on anger and fear, the people in the middle of the spectrum get disenfranchised more as both two-party single vote options stretch further from them to garner good or bad attention. This results in no vote, which is nowhere near as bad as a vote transferring to the opposition.

In a mandatory/preference country, hyperbole and extremism costs you the vote and because they have to vote still, your lost vote goes to the opposition and is a net change of -2 votes. 1 less vote + 1 opposition gained vote.

Peter Dutton was the leader amongst the right wing faction of the party when they had the moderate Liberal members, when Turnbull lost the leadership it was due to an internal power struggle from the right wing of the party room. At the time Morrison won because he was perceived to be both a moderate and somewhat conservative, when the room included the former Teal seat moderates they kept the leadership from going more fringe with Dutton.

Without the moderate members that lost to the Teals, the right wing of the Liberal Party had the majority of the party room and they put their leader in charge despite what happened in American being counter and unrepeatable to our much better voting system.

Now that the Liberal party has gotten a proper swift kick up the bum for letting themselves shift too far from center, with the leader changed in the process, if they have any sense they will realise how much they got wrong or they'll never win another election.

They have no choice now but to level and rebuilt their party, or the Commonwealth will become like Victoria and WA, having no second party option while the rusted on Liberal voters cost everyone the opportunity of a new second party emerging.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

There’s a possibility that they’re going to go even more right and more Trump like in the future, that would surely spell the end of the party.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Yeah that’s my concern too

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

don't worry, the herald sun and sky radio/tv are still massive cunts and will tear apart and lie about everything Labor does

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Imo it's not a loss for Australia when the only opposition is batshit insane and dangerous. They needed a harsh slap on the face. They need to be told in no uncertain terms that this Trump-lite bullshit is NOT welcome, it is not to be entertained even in a "but muh both sides!" debate. The Libs entirely deserve this bollocking.

I do really hope they can become an effective opposition again (and the greens too). But it'll require some big changes. If the libs do another moronic pivot even further right like they did after the last election and the loss at state level in Vic, then seriously, that's not even remotely Labor or the Australian public's fault. I'd love to see the libs die and some alternative parties come up instead.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Oh they needed to be squashed like this. But while they sort themselves out or we wait for a new party to emerge (and it's unlikely that one will that's big enough to be taken seriously), there's nobody to properly hold the government to account. That's not good for Australia.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I completely forgot that Tony Abbott also lost his seat, it just wasn't immediately as he lost the leadership.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

If i had to rank them in terms of satisfaction, abbot losing was sweeter.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

spoiler

I remember how I and other vulnerable people were treated in 2013

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago (3 children)

So, what do the voters of Dickson want? Aquatic centre? High speed rail? Street party with bottomless bar? Give them whatever they want. They've done a service to this country.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Probably not a nuclear reactor in their backyard.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

I’m happy to go round and give them all a 5 minute back rub each. They’ve all earned it.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

Surely a free bbq at the local park, jumping castle for the kids and fireworks for later on for a start.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

May the fourth be with you..

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