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Looking specifically for men but I’m open to all opinions. I’ve been doing some experimenting over the last 2 and a bit years, trying to find what works best for me. I’d love to get some opinions on what has worked for others.

stuff I’ve tried:

  • L'Oréal Men Expert (no complaints)
  • Bull Dog (not the biggest fan)
  • Neutrogena (no complaints either)
  • SkinCeuticals (borrowed from my partner who got some as a gift)

I’m in Europe if it helps

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago
  • Some organic face soap
  • some organic shaving soap (lasts forever, mix with water or use these fancy brushes)
  • organic basic cream (afterwards)
  • sometimes peeling containing clay
[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Looking specifically for men but I’m open to all opinions

Pay attention to what women are using, aside from dealing with make up the skin care routine isn't that different.

In the shower I use a daily foaming face cleanser. Using soap is worse on facial skin (ends up causing more breakouts, etc.).

I use bar soap for the rest of my shower routine.

In the mornings and evenings I moisturize dry skin areas (mainly hands and lips).

Before shaving I always exfoliate.

In the U.S. I tend to use Aveeno products for that stuff but you should be able to find equivalents of those things in Europe.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Aveeno is widely available in the UK, don't know about the rest of Europe.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

We’ve got loads here in Ireland

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

TIL :)

Did a quick google search before commenting & saw people talking about not being able to find Aveeno in Europe so wasn't too sure. Maybe that just applies to other countries beyond the Ireland / UK area.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Fellow guy here.I use CeraVe foaming face wash followed with Clinique Dramatically Different moisturizing gel for oily skin.

I also use CeraVe moisturizer in the big tub for my hands and skin when they're dry. I dare not use that stuff of my face, as it's too greasy and makes me break out.

I've also got some CORSX AHA 7 Liquid for exfoliating with some cotton swabs.

And finally just some proraso for shaving.

But yeah, you really gotta figure out what kinda skin type you've got so you can better match up what products you really need, or see a dermatologist to get a regimen figured out, of you even need one. Like if you've got dry skin, oily skin, or combination, etc.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I just got some moisturizer with Retinol to firm my skin up a bit. Seems to be working.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

Retinol can work wonders. Just two things: you probably don’t need it before turning 30, and you should stay out of the sun or wear good sunscreen if you can’t, when you have recently used it. I only apply it once a week in the evening.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Yeah, I'm 41. You probably wouldn't think I need it looking at me, but I've lost some weight, and it's all a bit looser than I'd like. Hoping this will tighten it up some. I live in Arizona and didn't know that about the sun, so thanks for the tip :)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Our family have always stuck with using Honey, for area as with really bdad skin. Honey is so natural and sweet, for us this has worked wonders. Highly recommend giving it a try. If not pure honey, there are more and more skin care products with honey in it. Thank you wonderful bees 🍯

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I would’ve thought it would leave you feeling sticky?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Well yes, but it's the sorta thing you would apply onto your skin when at home, leave it on for a couple of hours, then wash off again.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Truefitt and Hill makes a fantastic aftershave balm that I find greatly reduces razor burn and ingrown hairs. For my hands I use lanolin, it’s a bit greasy but works wonders for dry hands.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

My hands get really dry after washing bottles for my newborn, and nothing does the trick quite as well as working hands (although it does feel oily after applying, so I only use it right before going to sleep)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Seeing that you’re in the UK I recommend Facetheory. Good products and there’s always an offer code for 20% off. https://www.facetheory.com/

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Skin care products are required to get no government cetification on their claims. Hence its mostly marketing and giving/taking advantage of people with self image issues. Its the next step in consumerism to take advantage of mens wallets in the same way the beuty industry has been doing to women for years.

Soap and water will clean practically anything and if ya need it maybe some dirt cheap moisturiser for literally any part of your body will do the trick. Hell u can probably find something in ur kitchen that will do just as good of a job as any bullshit product.

Dont buy into the marketing mens beuty marketing is perfectly correllated with self image issues its all designed to make u a good little consumer.

Honestly the best thing u can do for your skin is go swimming in the ocean once a day.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Even soap and water (or hot water) is bad if you do it too often, doing every day is bad for the body, as it removes the natural protection your skin produces and NEEDS, and you don't need the skin care products unless it is for some issues you have on your skin (medical reason). Those products often creates more issues with your skin. We should always visit an expert on skin care with studies and stop following random people.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Most of the marketing about skin protection is bs.

And sunscreen is also probably better for said protection than some special bs shite.

And yeah medical reasons is a whole different thing entirely.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

But we are talking about skincare in general, right? Sunscreen is good to protect your skin from sun and very recommendable, but the OP isn't asking sunscreen, he is asking for general products and what I have seen on internet, there is a lot of abuse of those products and misinformation, that's why I would go to an expert to know the best for your skin, as every skin is different.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Another vote for CeraVe here. I have oily skin and still at the age of 40 get some acne and their blemish control cleanser and the SA moisturiser keep it under control. My skin has never been better.

What’s your skin like OP? Is it dry or oily? Do you work outside? I can better recommend some products if I know what you need.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I work inside all day at the moment (I work fully remote). If I don't use a moisturiser my skin will get very dry and flakey. During summer I cycle quite a bit so the perspiration can cause some breakouts.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Definitely have a go of the CeraVe SA smoothing cream. A little goes a long way and it will work miracles for dry skin. You can use it all over your body too. I’ve got a big pot of the stuff and it lasts ages. They also have moisturisers with SPF which you can use together with the SA cream. The foaming oil cleanser or the hydrating cleanser would be great for you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Paula’s Choice for liquid or gel exfoliant and sunscreen moisturiser - personally I prefer the ultra sheer SPF 15 as the mineral based one feels rough on my skin. I’ll then top up with a higher SPF face sunscreen if necessary, as it usually is in Australia.

I also use Clinique’s All About Eyes cream, All About Clean 2-in-1 Cleansing + Exfoliating Jelly as my daily scrub, and Dramatically Different Moisturizing Lotion+ if I want a moisturiser without sunscreen.

If you try Paula’s Choice, give the routine finder a go to find the right fit for your skin type.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

For my face i use Cerave daily moisturizing lotion. If you don't have that in europe look for anything that says "non comedogenic" and bonud points for salycic acid. These are really good if you suffer from acne, blotchy skin, or big ugly pores. Avoid scented stuff too, but as you said mens stuff that shouldn't be hard.

For body I use Vaseline Advanced Repair lotion, which is strong stuff and really good for eczema or garden variety dry skin.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago

Dr bronners for skin and hair (I have very thick indian hair in jata style dreadlocks down to my knees). For a long time I used a charcoal based face wash (lush until they changed their formula for coal face, then some similar brand I found on amazon) but for whatever odd reason after a few years my skin stopped tolerating it and kept breaking out, so I switched to Kate Somerville's sulfur face wash which works wonders (but does have a bit of a smell to it unfortunately).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Dove unscented bar soap and whatever unscented shampoo I find at target or Walmart. My wife got alaffia Shea lotion that I like but she didn't, it goes on without feeling greasy and I use working hands on cold days when my knuckles crack

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago

Paula's Choice ships to Europe and it's amazing. I've been using it for over 20 years

PC men's skincare: https://www.paulaschoice.com/skin-care-products/mens

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

Cetaphil face wash. Bioré AQUA Rich Watery Essence sunscreen from Japan. you can't even tell you're wearing sunscreen

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Second on the biore sunscreen. I can never go back to regular sunscreen.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Do you have to special order the sunscreen from somewhere?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I just Google it and hit the shopping tab to find the best price at that time. a lot of people carry it, but none of them reliably or at of reliable price. sometimes Amazon has the best price, sometimes walmart, sometimes someplace I've never heard of. the last time, I found a bunch of extra large bottles which was amazing

[–] [email protected] 5 points 9 months ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

A hyperlink to a YouTube with a "si" tracking tag... so good we have bots to fix this. 😆

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

I did kinda take that song to heart.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

Here is an alternative Piped link(s):

Wear Sunscreen

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 9 months ago

I struggled with adult acne for a long time. Currently I use:

Toner my aunt makes (it’s basic, she owns a soap business, so it’s not sketchy ha); Some sort of eye cream because I’m getting crows feet, but I haven’t found one yet that I feel does anything at all (taking recs, but I don’t like spending a lot on this stuff; maybe that’s why it’s all been useless so far!); Neutrogena sensitive skin moisturizer; Australian Gold tinted sunscreen.

My skin has changed a lot over time. It got a lot better (less oily) post-kids, but I don’t know if it was baby hormones or age, or if by then I had just gotten the routine down and was no longer super drying it out, which lead to lots of oil.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Gentle exfoliation with a foaming cleanser that won’t dry your skin out and a soft wash rag. A retinoid (adapaline) nightly or every other night, and a moisturizer 2x a day. Use sunscreen and re-apply every 2 hours to reduce sun damage.

This can all be cheap and have good data behind them.

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