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What's bringing you joy?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I've started practicing yoga. It's been about two weeks and I love it. I like pushing my body to do the poses and finding out that most of the time I can actually do more than I thought I could. And if I can't, that's another opportunity to get better.

Thanks for asking this question. Have a nice one.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

I have friends and a family who care about me, and I've been listening to one of my new favorite podcasts, "You're Wrong About".

That's about all that's getting me through life right now.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Anarchism and Syndicalismโ€”Anarcho-syndicalism bring me joy, alongside Debian and Linux.

Im happy in life because I don't have to use Windows and proprietary software that limits my freedom to modify my system to my liking.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

I've got a great Plexi sound from my Helix and Les Paul for playing Led Zeppelin numbers.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

I live in the US, and with the state of things I have decided to make my life more analog and disconnected this year, and for the foreseeable future. Instead of online games, I do puzzles and listen to audiobooks. Instead of doom scrolling for hours, I've decided I'm going to start backpacking. Instead of watching so much TV, I've been reading more.

All of these things are helping bring me peace. I've been pack training with my dog, which means doing longer day hikes with a heavy pack for each of us, and it's just been so nice. I'm losing weight without trying (which is a good thing as I'm overweight), I'm seeing parts of my area I've never seen, and spending fantastic quality time with my dog. This weekend we're doing a shakedown car camp to see how he does in my smaller backpacking tent and I am SO excited. In 3 weeks we go on our first backpacking trip with a friend, and I'm already dreaming of future trips. All of this is huge for us because I'm allergic to the sun (literally) and he (my dog) is very sensitive to heat, and allergic to wasps (we have to carry epipens for him) so deciding to spend time outdoors has taken a lot of consideration, determination and planning, but we're doing it. I'm so excited for the adventures we'll have, I can't even put my emotions into words.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I quit my unecessarily stressful job with no plan next, and I feel like anything is possible now!

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I quit a higher paying job to move to the Columbia River gorge. Sure I make a lot less money but I'm so happy being out in this beautiful area. There's something calming about it

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Dude, that's awesome!

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Actually, the thing that is causing me stress is also my source of joy.

I quit weed last week. Going through withdrawals which are pretty bad, but I know in the long term, it's going to be worth it to have a clear mind.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Been there too many times to count, you got this!

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Hi all,

I have enjoyed all of the replies in this thread, and it has brought me happiness to read about yours.

I also recognize that not everyone is feeling joy right now, and that's ok too, life is not always fun to live, sometimes it's downright brutal. If you're going through a time like that, I wish you the best in getting through it, there are few forces stronger than the power of the human will.

I think there are a few main themes here in the replies that seem to be spirit boosters, and let's be honest none of these are unexpected, but I think it can be nice to have a reminder of what's good.

In no particular order :

  • Pets
  • Family
  • Friends
  • Children
  • Partners
  • Accomplishments
  • Projects
  • Art
  • Hobbies
  • Freedom
  • Teaching
  • Health

Now I don't think you need to have every one of these things in your life to truly be happy, but if you're feeling like nothing is bringing you joy, maybe one of these things might.

I think most importantly, gratitude is the attitude, if something is making your life better, taking a second to recognize it can make it feel even better. If someone is bringing you joy, make sure they know it deep down in their soul โค๏ธ

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This post. There are a lot of negative news in the world and Lemmy feels often pessimistic. Reading everybody's answers made me feel lighter, so thank you for the question

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

I'm glad you are enjoying it, and as am I, it's been so nice to read about all the good in everyone's lives.

I feel like Lemmy is kind of like anything else in that you get out of it what you put into it to a degree.

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