I think this is missing the key ingredient: is the victim white and attractive?
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Watching Live PD last night. Guy runs on a motorcycle. They have the area surrounded after he ditches. They're looking for him and one cop spots him. He commands the guy and he's complying. He's almost on his knees and another cop spots him. He ran, full on run, and leapt onto the guy that was almost on his knees. The other guy that was commanding jumped on him after that as well. Guy wasn't resisting. Guy was complying. Guy had hands in the air. Guy wasn't reaching for anything.
Cop after: "He ran and we didn't know what he was capable of. So we tackled him and restrained him."
It's absolute cop wank material. All of it. The majority of the time they are way over reactive and then try to justify it all. They have that disclaimer, but then most of the time they never really follow up with info, or proper info. "Guy was booked on blah blah." Ok, but was he actually convicted? Was he found guilty, or did you just over react and your "oh I totally for sure smell weed" was bullshit. I'm fucking sick of seeing that too. How many times has jackass said that only to find...nothing.
And then they say "he was following his training" when people get rightfully angry
And that's a huge part of the problem. That is a part of the training. They are taught to see everyone and everything is a threat that wants them dead.
Add onto that cops the constantly work overtime you got a group of people who are sleep deprived, hyped up on caffeine and ready, willing, and able to shoot you for looking at them sideways and won't be held accountable for doing so.
Killology baybee
How are there so many men growing up that want to abuse people and get away with it? It's becoming a pandemic. Cruelty is becoming trendy. I'm so scared
I'd bet abuse in his past. Not that it's an excuse, but it's so much easier to follow the path you know. I grew up in it and decided to break the cycle. I only learned much later that my step father was abused as well. My sister hasn't dealt with it. She's always angry. She's always yelling. She'll argue instead of deescalate. I did it at first, but I realized I was perpetuating exactly what I didn't want to. I was making myself depressed and physically sick for days after an argument. Luckily, I realized it pretty quickly.
Abuse and trauma are a blanket in a war zone. The war zone (the world around you) is chaotic and unpredictable. Abuse and trauma is familiar. You know it. You know it isn't safe, but you know what to expect. So you stick with it. Leaving that is hard. You have to leave the warm blanket behind. Trudge through the unknown chaos of that war zone, and find your way out. You want to go back to that blanket. To the predictable. The path out isn't even totally for you, and you know it. It's for the next generation.
I feel bad for his kids. They're not going to get any type of mental health care until they're adults. I'd bet that "therapy is for pussys" and "Only women cry" is his household motto.
My son's girlfriend is in the same predicament. Her step father is military. Her mom is a detective. Her step is the abuser. Her mom lets it happen. She's 18 and graduates this year. Yet they read every social media message. They track her on her phone through an app. They yelled at her to get a job, or she couldn't play softball. They read all of her bank statements and grill her on what she spends of her own money. Then, he turned around a month later and said she needs to spend her time off filling out scholarships. She's their full time babysitter to her sisters, who are treated well by step father because they're his own legit kids.
My son is so frustrated because he doesn't know how to help. I've been helping coach him on how best to help and be there for her. I do what I can to communicate that she's a good person. They can't read IG photos so I'm constantly sending funny faces back and forth with her. She'll come here with him for lunch as well and I'll give her a hug when I sense she needs it.
We've offered up our home if she wants to move out. She won't, and I understand it, she's stuck a bit, but it's there. They're moving after she graduates. She said she's not going to visit them on holidays. She's welcome here. I'd bet they'll wonder why she doesn't visit. People like that never understand why. She's going to have to get her own car ASAP too. They're using that as leverage over her. I told her we'd help as much as we can. Even if it means we co sign.
I see this behavior in the military a lot, and I think it's because it attracts people that don't see a way out. Even if they think it is for altruistic reasons as a kid, the root cause is just wanting out of the home. Out of that situation. It isn't until years later that they truly, hopefully, realize why they went in. Many won't though.
Thoughtful answer
Lots of tragedy there. Wishing happiness toward you and your son's girlfriend
They're immune to punishment for their actions, like the president of the US. That always ends well.
- “Boys will be boys”
- “Well, why would he do that he’s a captain he can get girls”
- ”What were you wearing”
- ”Maybe you just didn’t remember the night accurately you said you were both ‘wasted’”
- ”So have you like heard of the bro-code before?”
This made me angry.
As it should.
One night I walked home from work, in my work uniform, and some old guy with a personalized license plate asked me if I wanted to get coffee, at 9 pm. I was like, um no, and you're weird, and then I went home and thought about it and decided to report it, wasn't that long after the Karla Homolka and Paul Bernardo serial killings of young girls in my city. The cop who showed up to take my statement asked me what I had been wearing, and then called me back to tell me he was just a lonely old guy looking for someone to talk to. Like who on Betty White's green earth pulls over to try and convince a stranger to get into their car at 9 pm, a young woman many decades your junior, and thinks that's normal? Fucking cops.
I posted this on FB today and my friend that works in the domestic violence shelter system told me she'll tell me over coffee how many cops show up to harass women staying at the shelter.
Boo!
RAPE
So Scary!!!
No idea why people censor themselves like this.
Welp, there goes my YouTube monetization.
It's so it can be shared on places with algorithmic censorship for the most likes as possible
Boycott those places, otherwise we are consenting to being censored in the name of advertising profitability.
We're not prying the millions of teens off the sites they use.
The better alternative than screaming and preaching shit nobody wants to hear is to provide better alternatives. In time, topics like rape and murder and suicide are going to become almost a mystique, a forbidden world of knowledge. With sites like 4Chan finally dying, there's a real vacuum out there for a place "kids can sneak off to" and learn the truth.
Or even better, talk to them personally. Make sure the people in your lives, particularly younger ones, know they can talk about rape, death, sex and other "taboo" topics without being yelled at, shot down or reacted-to in a negative way. I promise, people of all ages are desperate to connect with others in an honest, non-judgemental way.
It would serve us better to just stop using the internet ourselves and devote more of that time to helping people in person. I taught and coached boys and young men for a long time, I made a huge difference. It's not even hard to do, it just takes patience and a calm demeanor and you can move mountains.
That sounds like work. Why can't I bitch about the minor annoyance of a trigger warning and a line through a word?
Capitalism has neutered our ability to speak freely about the most important, most painful truths in our society.
The platforms that most people spend most of their conscious thought-power have told our children and adults alike that things like rape, suicide, murder and nazism are so distant from us, so "unreal" that we don't even have words for them anymore.
This isn't a small thing. Language has massive power in our minds to reshape our world. We use language to abstractify complicated ideas and learn how to examine them from different perspectives. Language is how we built a world a wonders and miracles, but we're being conditioned every day to stop using language. Don't read, scroll. Don't debate, retreat to safe spaces. Don't say bad words, someone might feel bad if you say "rape." As if people aren't currently being raped right now. I wonder how they feel about the word.
But did you knoooowwww, that nearly a quarter of US adults are functionally illiterate? Meaning, they can answer texts, they can read street signs and a grocery list, but are almost incapable of stringing together a whole paragraph? This isn't a small problem, it's why the west is falling, it's why we have nazis marching again. I mean... why we have "armband baddies" marching, or whatever the sanitized term is.
How is that capitalism's fault, and not the fault of the ridiculous puritans the censorship is trying to cater to?
Because platforms cater to advertisers who cater to the broadest possible audience. Meaning they don't take stances on any issues, they just use the broadest, safest possible forms of language and principles.
If you take any kind of active stance about anything there are going to be "ridiculous puritans" somewhere, in some context who are going to be offended. And once you decide that you're going to piss off some group of people, you have to then apply your principles consistently or you're going to make even more public backlash and controversy.
Platforms that are courting advertisers are going to try to make their platform as universally uncontroversial as possible rather than invite brands in who have to either align with the existing values of the platform or invite brands in who will have to then take a stance in any capacity.
As a result, we have the largest gathering places for people's minds, completely disconnected from reality by presenting people a neutered, safe version of the world without any possible way for people to see something that bothers them, because it's far easier to sell products when people are thinking about the product, not your company's stance on something. This is what's turned our social media and the internet broadly into a marketing tool. This is why the internet is dead. This is why kids don't even say the word "dead" anymore because they're used to abiding by the brand's safe version of reality.
I mean, is this really hard to understand?
Yeah, because you're overcomplicating it.
This censorship in particular is coming from China's overbearing government. Remove that element and capitalism is fine leaving things uncensored. Remove the religious right from America and there'd be less censorship elsewhere.
They don't censor as much in the UK, for example. Would you say China is more capitalist than the UK?
Remove the religious right from America
Oh so it all hinges on ethnic cleansing then? I love rando internet takes. Fuck off, I don't care about your points, you're in some fantasy world.
That's obviously not what I meant, but you just go ahead and keep being you.
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