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Fancy cupcakes are 70% icing, really not that nice and a waste of money

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The world actually did end in 2012.

This is hell.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago (8 children)

DND is not a good universal game system. It's pretty good at being DND, but that's a particular beast that's mostly about resource management.

You can definitely use it for a game about social intrigue, or horror, or modern day anything, but it's not really good at any of that. Like using a hammer to put screws in, you'll probably get something done, and if you're hanging with your friends you'll probably have a good time. But it's a weird tool to reach for.

Personally, I don't think the core of the rules system is very good at all. Flat probability feels weird. Armor as all-or-nothing is weird. Hit and damage being split into two rolls is slow and weird. In the latest edition, making very few choices about your character often feels bad. Levels are a very coarse unit of growth. The magic system somehow manages to make magic not feel like magic- no wonder, no mystery, it's just safe and standardized. I could go on.

But it's mega popular and people are emotionally invested, so there's not much to be done about it. There are dozens of people playing the thousands of other games out there.

Also a lot of people have never played anything else, so their analysis and defense of it is often lacking. Like if I've only ever played baseball, and never even watched any other sports, I wouldn't feel qualified to talk about bowling. But you get people saying like "no you need to wear cleats that's a universal property of sports" when bowling comes up. Like, not every game has six stats. Not every game has attributes like that at all.

And again, if you're having fun with dnd then that's the primary goal achieved. We don't need to maximize fun and efficiency in all things all times. I just think that it would be a good experience to branch out more, even if it's scary, because that will lead to a richer experience overall.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I generally agree. For one shots, there are much slimmer systems out there.

I'm not sure I agree about splitting hit and damage feeling weird, but it definitely is slow. But overall, yeah. DnD is generally one of my least favorite systems to play in.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago

First-past-the-post voting should be replaced so people can vote outside the two party system with no spoiler effect.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Bootstrap CSS is the cancer of web development and its use implies a misunderstanding and ignorance of your craft.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

The really steep one that'll give me a heart attack.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yes! Give me some bullshit supermarket cupcakes all day over one of those dumb boutique shops, and homemade over that but who's got the time these days.

While I'm here cakenuts != donuts, donuts require dough not batter and all dunkin style "donuts" are a big ol' lie which would be ameliorated by admitting they're cakenuts.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I applaud this

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

Don’t debate on things we have little to no expertise/personal experience in. [insert really divisive issue here], I am not [this group of people], [other group of people], and don’t have the legal/medical/[insert other relevant thing] background to comment on this issue.

If you ignore those hot issues, you can focus on the important things that matter in life. Like what’s for breakfast tomorrow morning.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Modern medicine, no matter how smart and clever we think we are, still mostly involves doing things that just keep the patient amused while letting nature take it's course.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Vinyl sounds shit. It reintroduces all the issues digital audio solved decades ago. I have heard vinyl rips made with equipment that costs as much as a new bmw and it has constant and frequent quality issues like static. It also has to downgrade audio sometimes to prevent the needle from physically flying out. It is impossible for vinyl to sound as good as the digital master or flac version of it that it was made from. It WILL always sound worse even thanks to the fact that physical world is very flawed and imprecise.

People arguing otherwise are either deaf or need to look in the mirror and accept the fact that they enjoy vinyl for the experience not the sound quality.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Meh, the under lying extra noise is what those people are looking for and not the purity of the sound. Which supposedly ties back to the inherent sound of live music which isn't cleaned up digitally.

It's all potatoes no matter which kind of audiophile a person is.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah the sound and the experience of the hassle is what makes vinyl worth experiencing but there is a large portion who claim vinyl sounds the highest quality.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

Totally. And I'm happy to acknowledge the former, while I laugh at the latter.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago

I will never play a game that needs admin elevation to run, I don't care how good it allegedly is.

I've missed out on playing several games with friends due to this stance. Star Wars: The Old Republic was the first I can remember. Marvel Rivals is the most recent.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The big Costco muffins were 1000x better than the new ones.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I miss those bad boys so much. Especially the chocolate ones

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