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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

its almost always the one thing that is a problem in most low-birth rate countries, that the govt ignores. HCOL, raising a child is very expensive+ political instability, causing deaths and misery.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'd really like to see the evidence for this statement, since it really seems like this trend is just an extension of the phenomenon we see in poorer countries: when you give women education, opportunities, and birth control, fewer of them will have children. It stands to reason that the more education, the more opportunities available, and the more freely accessible birth control is, the fewer women will have children.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (5 children)

There is also that sure but biologically people want to have kids, the extreme cost of living experienced by many prevents them from having kids

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (9 children)

I wonder how many are white people with a decent income who have two dogs, want to travel and to play Elden ring.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Me, but I have no dogs and don't play video games.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Me. But I have 3 dogs.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 day ago (10 children)

People without financial security: "kids are too expensive and I would be exhausted trying to provide for them"

People with financial security: "I'm having a good time, adding a kid to this mix would really require a step back in my lifestyle."

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

And yet the people most concerned about birth rates fight the hardest against anything that would make people have more kids

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 day ago (6 children)

There's also the moral question of "do I want to add a living person to the world I wish I didn't exist in?"

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

That's why I think if I'm gonna have a kid some day it will be via adoption.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don’t want kids because I’m selfish with my time and don’t want to dedicate it to taking care of them. I don’t like kids because they are loud, smelly, and annoying.

That’s all there is to it. There’s nothing deep here. I like free time and quiet and don’t want to sacrifice that for 20+ years.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I love my daughter. She’s 4yo. She’s so amazing. But if I knew what I knew now in the US… I would not put her in it.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I want kids, but the government is doing their damndest to make it as difficult as possible for us by crashing the economy, cutting all federal programs, staffing agencies with NPCs, etc. Give generous paternity leave stipulations, tax credits, legalize surrogacy, and give credits for AI (artificial insemination) and surrogacy. Not to mention universal healthcare and child care credits.

Make it easy for us to have kids, and we will, lol. Quit cockblocking us.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Quit cockblocking us

It's more like semen blocking

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