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I get it. There's some real jerks around here. Whether they're constantly argumentative, downright rude, always acting in bad faith, just plain trolls, overly opinionated on every subject, have the social skills of a Nausicaan, or whatever - the Fediverse is growing, and it's bound to attract toxicity in one way or another.

This post is mostly a PSA for anyone who's feeling like leaving because they're tired of dealing with things like that. I've been there several times myself, I know exactly how you feel, and I'm tired of seeing good people harassed off the platform.

Just remember that blocking is a very powerful way to stay in control of your experience. Be it a set of users, me specifically, a list of keywords, a whole community, or an entire instance: if it's causing you nothing but stress, hit that block button and see if that improves your experience here. Unlike the alien site, there is no limit to the number of entities you can block; you're in control.

Another thing to keep in mind is different instances have different vibes, and the experience can totally differ depending on the instance's moderation and federation policy.

In conclusion, your experience here can be what you make of it; don't be afraid to just block the parts that stress you out. You're not "creating an echo chamber" as everyone likes to say (often in bad faith) -- you're just taking care of yourself.

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[–] [email protected] 50 points 1 month ago (22 children)

Also, voyager lets you tag users which is a godsend.

If I notice someone who is unnecessarily rude, dodgy opinions, bigoted or something, I add a tag, and if I see it is constant repetitive behaviour, I’ll block them.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Thunder too, installed it specifically for user tags!

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I hope they bring that to Lemmy overall, it will make for a much better experience for everyone. Mobile is really hard to mod from.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

There is a voyager frontend on web. But I think it’s only a mobile view https://vger.app/posts/lemm.ee/all

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Would be a great selling point over centralized alternatives too. "take control of your own experience" and all that. Reddit will never be able to achieve that level

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Reddit Executive Suite (RES) was amazing for that. I've been gone so long that I'm not sure it works anymore.

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[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I'd add "report" to that advice. If somebody is outright being jerks, that is probably against your instance's rules — and if it isn't, there are plenty others to choose from.

Blocking helps you, but reporting people (or instances) that are just here to troll will help others.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago

I read all reports on my instance (i get reports on our users and from our users, too; so i see quite a lot) rest assured, all your reports actually do something.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Agreed. I report bad behavior where I see it. I've only blocked one person, becausen they took a downvote as a personal attack and started DMing me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

You're very right. Blocking when they are being an asshole is just putting your head in the sand. It might feel petty but remember that others are probably also impacted by their shitty behaviour.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

I agree with this 100%. The mods can't get rid of the bad guys if they don't know about them. There are very few mods for relatively big communities, help them out if you see something going bad. They might not agree with you, but it's still good practice if people aren't following the rules.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

True. If it's report-worthy, absolutely. But there are certainly accounts that aren't violating any rules but can still be a source of stress. Those are often the "rules lawyer" type who knows exactly how to stay right on the line without crossing it.

Counterpoint is that if that person is finally banned, they're 9 times out of 10 just going to spin up a new alt and start back up with the same shtick. If everyone just blocks them, they're just shouting into the wind wondering why no one's taking their bait. I dislike how Reddit had "shadow bans", but I can see how they would be effective when used surgically.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

That’s one of the benefits of the smaller community here too, the block button actually feels like it does something. If you’re frustrated by comments that add nothing to anything or are fishing for drama etc, a short commitment to blocking repeat offenders really improves things quickly

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (9 children)

I found that a total of like 5 people post basically all of the lemmynsfw stuff. Once I blocked them, it almost all went away. Pretty sure the internet is nothing but bots now.

Also, if you're on the internet expecting all sunshine and rainbows -- leave now. The internet is not a place for that. Everything now is rage-bait designed to get more clicks, and the internet has always been the wild west with major hostilities all the time. It's not a good place to spend your time if you're looking to relax.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I’ve yet to block anyone here and the only one I had blocked on Reddit was Gallowboob.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 month ago

Well that's a name I haven't heard in a long time.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago

I use the block button like hideki kamiya uwu

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