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[–] [email protected] 3 points 17 hours ago

How about you go fuck yourself with a lit soldering iron, sozzy

No quarter to bigots, no concessions.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago
[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

No we shouldn't Sarah this giving ground bullshit is how we got here.

If you replace trans people with any other protected group you'd have your career ruined.

We aren't talking about weather or not the government should pay for our healthcare. We are talking about if our healthcare should even be legal. We are talking about if legally changing your name, which anyone can fucking do, is no longer available. We are talking about legislation that decides what fucking clothes we're allowed to wear, imagine if they said women can't wear jeans or pants at all? We're talking about states deciding that existing is a felony Sarah.

This isn't a game we're not playing "but the moderates" those don't exist in this country. They literally don't have a position because we've slid so far right that either your with the corpo Nazis or you're not.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

I don't see how this can lead to anything good.

The democrats have given ground on immigration every damn election. What it's 'won' is base level of support to put brown people in concentration camps across the political spectrum. The whole "I love immigrants, but if they come here illegally they deserve to be punished" argument can't stand up to the truth that the inhuman conditions in these camps are far in excess of justice.

On paper I understand that the democratic party can't guarantee that every member holds the same view on trans rights. In practice we already have evidence that yes, the slope is indeed quite slippery.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Sarah McBride should suck the corn out of my backside

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Sure, and who should the Dems throw under the bus after that?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

“If, for instance, we want to have a majoritarian coalition — not just electorally, but specifically on issues around trans rights — that, by necessity, is going to have to include people who have a range of thoughts,” McBride continued.
“A binary choice between being all-on or all-off is not constructive for anyone,” she said. “It impedes the very needed path toward winning electorally, winning hearts and minds, and, most importantly, winning progress.”
“I do think I understand, as a trans person, how to meet people who aren’t trans where they are, and how to find commonality with people,” she said. “Part of that is creating room for a lack of understanding, for disagreement, for grace and, therefore, to create room for growth.”

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)

What the fuck is wrong with her?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I don't think she's saying this because she prefers it, but rather because she sees it is necessary.

“If, for instance, we want to have a majoritarian coalition — not just electorally, but specifically on issues around trans rights — that, by necessity, is going to have to include people who have a range of thoughts,” McBride continued.

She is clearly arguing that its more effective to be open to a range of ideas than to not so.

“A binary choice between being all-on or all-off is not constructive for anyone,” she said. “It impedes the very needed path toward winning electorally, winning hearts and minds, and, most importantly, winning progress.”

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

NO.

Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. This isn’t politics; it’s a matter of morality.

There is no place in a civilized society for behavior that unpersons fellow human beings. Ever. Full stop. We do NOT need to ‘win the hearts and minds’ of people who want to be cruel to others for no damn reason. We need them to change, or leave.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Not too surprising from a pro-Israel candidate.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

She's either short sighted or suicidal.

Short sighted: she recognizes that what she's saying is correct in that it would lead to short term gains for the party but fails to recognize the long term effects that allowing "sidelining minorities for political gain" to regain steam it has lost over the past few decades.

Suicidal: she recognizes all of the above is actually absolutely the correct direction for any non-trans democrat who only cares about building party influence to push at this moment and for some god damn reason she's telling the evil fucks all about it in plain English.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nazis. Democrats should be more open to Nazis. Fuck off, Nazi scum.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You know what they call a party where they don't kick out Nazis and fascists?

A Nazi party.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I don't think she's saying this because she prefers it, but rather because she sees it is necessary.

“If, for instance, we want to have a majoritarian coalition — not just electorally, but specifically on issues around trans rights — that, by necessity, is going to have to include people who have a range of thoughts,” McBride continued.

She is clearly arguing that its more effective to be open to a range of ideas than to not so.

“A binary choice between being all-on or all-off is not constructive for anyone,” she said. “It impedes the very needed path toward winning electorally, winning hearts and minds, and, most importantly, winning progress.”

Politics is a strategic war. Its very simple to be 100%, non-compromising, in-support of something. But is that the most effective path forward?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I mean, I think you should take this the wrong way, but this sounds like something a fascist apologist would say.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

One could make similar statements (and some do), about voting for the democrats over a better farther-left party. The defenders of voting Democrat would likely tell you the same thing: "Its our only chance at winning."

Are you voting for genocide if you compromise and vote for the Democrats? Or are you merely making the best of a broken system?

You decide.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (1 children)

So, the problem you have with this pitchfork, and I'll accept the fallacy for the purpose of exercise, is that it isn't happening in a vacuum. We actually have the receipts for exactly what you outline.

Voter were told “Its our only chance at winning.” They were being asked by Democrats to compromise and vote for genocide. And the Democrats lost in spectacular fashion.

Acting like you are trying to make the best of an imperfect system, when what you are really doing is creating the permission structure for it to get continuously worse: this approach to electoralism loses elections.

We have the receipts. We don't need to run the experiment again. We know, unequivocally, that if we ask people to compromise on something that they know is deeply immoral, we will lose.

Its not only that its deeply immoral: Its also bad strategy. Compromising on issue like trans rights, the march towards fascism, genocide: This loses you elections. You are asking someone to become a worse, lessor person, to adopt a strategy that won't even win. And this is the crux of it.

Democrats as politicians can-not continue to ask their voters to expect less of them. Not only because the things their asking for are deeply immoral, but in doing so, they've adopted a strategy which will lose them their race.

Its less important to me that its less strategic than it is less immoral. But this rotten brain worm that "compromise" will get you what you want; that if we can just convince people if they vote "strategic" enough, eventually, maybe after decades of voting, they'll get what they need to be considered human (gay marriage, civil rights, trans rights, women rights, social safety nets, minimum wage, on and on; almost none of the progressive policies we've ever accomplished have been achieved through bipartisan compromise).

Compromise in this context is the second stroke of the ratchet mechanism that has locked America into a frog march towards fascism. Compromise is the song of Martin Luther Kings "white moderate"; the greater obstacle than those directly advocating towards a negative peace, rather than accepting the tension of a positive peace that fosters justice.

That compromise is what you advocate for.

I reject it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

We have the receipts. We don't need to run the experiment again. We know, unequivocally, that if we ask people to compromise on something that they know is deeply immoral, we will lose.

People have proposed multiple reasons why the Democrats lost. This is one. Them "continuing to play gender politics" is another.

A simple "They kept supporting isreal + they lost = they lost because of supporting isreal" lacks evidence. I believe this is rather complex.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 17 hours ago

If you want to keep your head in the sand and losing elections, keep doing this.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They want to eliminate trans people, so let's compromise and only eliminate half. Hooray! We're civil!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I see value in being uncompromising (look at Richard Stallman in Free Software). I also see value in giving a little in the right areas for a net gain.

I don't think McBride thinks that this is the ultimatum given at the moment (100% vs 50% of trans people die), that would explain why she is willing to compromise.

If she did see it that way, she would probably do the same as you.

Her wanting to compromise at this moment does not mean she would compromise in the worst of moments.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I don't think McBride thinks that this is the ultimatum given at the moment

It's not, but the whole point is erosion of civil rights by generating hate then just swinging for the fences. I was gonna say death by a thousand cuts but it's not even that anymore.

What does she expect to compromise on? Trans athletes? It doesn't matter. We're past that point already. Trans people can't even get a proper passport anymore.