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Most of the time when people say they have an unpopular opinion, it turns out it's actually pretty popular.

Do you have some that's really unpopular and most likely will get you downvoted?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't believe in prison for punitive justice. Prions should be used to keep society safe from dangerous people, not punishing them imo.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I have quite a few. I don't believe in copyright laws or IP in general. I think it holds back innovation and exists solely to benefit megacorps like Disney or pharmaceutical companies.

For example - you develop a new drug that really helps some people. You charge $50 a pill even though it costs you $5 to produce. Without the government protecting IP, another company will come around and produce it and sell it for $6 a pill, providing cheaper access to healthcare.

People will say "what would give someone the incentive to make new things?" Without actually thinking it through. For a great example of how lack of IP is a good thing, look at how Shenzhen went from a fishing village to a Chinese San Francisco in a few short decades.. one company will take the product of another and iterate on top of it.

Another unpopular opinion is I'm pretty absolutist with free speech. I think certain things like calls to violence or intentional defamation of character should be restricted. But pretty much everything else should be fair game.

I believe in open borders and think the US should return to the late 1800s style of immigration. We're gonna need the population to compete with China in the coming century.

I also think that the primary investment into climate change at this point should be preparing for the inevitable changes instead of trying to prevent the inevitable.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Cryptocurrency is a scam. Not just certain coins, but the whole concept. It's nothing more than digital tulips.

JavaScript is a bad language, but what's really bad about it is not the language itself but the ecosystem of libraries and tools. Getting just about anything to work is a huge struggle. Rust is much easier to use.

Having children is a horrible idea.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Bernie would have won had he not been blatantly cheated in the 2016 DNC primary. Weโ€™d be in a MUCH different timeline had he won.

Edit: Corbyn was done dirty in the UK too.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I find it weird that I support Bernie wholeheartedly, even though I am a Trump supporter (yeah, I can hear them coming)

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You all look dumb when dancing.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (7 children)

My unpopular opinion is that too many people give way, waaaaaayyy too much attention to "correct use of gender pronouns" and they should all just stfu.

I understand why that is a big deal for trans people, because they make their gender the defining aspect of their character. Something I consider a mistake, nobody's main defining characteristic should be their gender.

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

make their gender the defining aspect of their character

The vast majority of cishet people (if not all) make their gender the defining aspect of their character - so why should trans people be any different?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The vast majority of cishet people (if not all) make their gender the defining aspect of their character

I already said it

Something I consider a mistake, nobodyโ€™s main defining characteristic should be their gender.

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

But it already is, isn't it?

So if this...

nobodyโ€™s main defining characteristic should be their gender.

...is what you really want you need to start with cis people and not transgender ones, correct?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

We can add the people who have their sexuality as their only character trait and need everyone to know.

I don't need to know that you are lgbtqi+. If you want to tell me that you have a partner and they happen to be the same gender or such then good on you for finding someone to love. Fucking amazing how the world works and you went against the odds and all that.

However.

I don't need you to remind me that you are pan every 15 minutes.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm sure some people have made the mistake you are describing, but I doubt it's only trans people who have made this mistake.

As a trans person, I would like to make my gender an aspect of my character, like most people get to do. I am more than just my gender, but my gender is a part of who I am.

It does feel good to be validated about my gender, but I'm not worried about people getting my pronouns wrong. I know it can be confusing and people don't mean anything by it if they make a mistake. It's hard to describe the intensity of the joy I felt once, when I was validated about my gender by another person. So, I will say it doesn't surprise me if some people decide to express their gender a lot once they are finally able to.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Reddit is gonna be just fine and the shade we like to throw around here isn't even a blip on their radar

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[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"This" comments (on Reddit and Lemmy) are not a bad thing. An upvote is supposed to promote valuable content, not necessarily stuff you agree with. A "this" shows agreement. These are different things, and hunting down the "this" promotes the "upvote to agree, downvote to disagree" mentality.

(For example I said "this" to one comment on this thread, which was an unpopular opinion I agreed with. I upvoted plenty of other opinions I found interesting (and actually unpopular) while not necessarily agreeing with them.)

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Consuming drugs should not be illegal. Doesnt matter what effect the drug has, punishing the consumer does no good for anyone.

Selling drugs can and should in some cases be illegal though

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

The rise of feminism has seen the steady devaluation of the contribution of men in those areas of society where they should be most active. Rather than celebrate and recognise what's right, the focus is on attacking what's wrong.

The majority of men are lonely, isolated and uncared for. Many feel unvalued, unsafe and vulnerable. There is less community support for men than there has been in the past, less institutional support, and a continued decline in the tolerance of men being in shared places. The minimisation of value in societal roles is yet another way that men are cut off.

This seems to escape the vision of feminism. There is always claim of ideological alignment, where the empowerment of women directly benefits men, but when it comes to any form of concrete action that helps men that need help, or celebrates men that contribute - it's nowhere to be seen.

Men kill themselves. They kill themselves. In their thousands. Leaving cratered families, trauma, guilt from the survivors, many of whom are female. Because they feel valueless, helpless and can't see a purpose to going on.

Accountability goes both ways. In demanding support from men, feminism must support men.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

The majority of men are lonely, isolated and uncared for

Suicide rates are down amongst the youngest, the highest suicide rates are from people over 50 and specifically, white people over 50

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Because they feel valueless, helpless and can't see a purpose to going on.

I strongly believe this has nothing to do with feminism and is just a problem of the capitalist society we live in that only treats labour and hardwork like shit unless it can generate 1000x profits year on year. Building and serving a community isn't rewarded. Everything is about greed and more profits. Feminism can't solve capitalism. It can't stop people from feeling it's fucked up consequences like loneliness, feeling unvalued and committing suicide.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I could probably do a better job running your country than the guy you elected since I know when to give the problem to someone more qualified.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Got removed on reddit for this, but I think the mentally ill homeless should be placed in state institutions where they can get professional help.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago

Smell your own fart is a kind of a pleasure

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

People need to pay extra for their bodily excess weight. I'm done being harassed to pay for a kg more in my baggage.

[โ€“] [email protected] -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Everyone should be vegan. It's great for your health, for the environment, and more importantly, it would save more than a trillion (yes, with a T) lives every year.

In a hundred years we'll look back and be ashamed of what we did to animals.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I accept that a vegan diet can be healthy for many people, however, it may not work for everyone due to individual variations in nutrient absorption and metabolism.

In a hundred years, I think our species will be ashamed of a great many things.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Technically, veganism requires only what is possible and practicable. If you genuinely needed to eat a hundred grams of chicken each week for unavoidable health reasons, you'd still be vegan, if you abstained from any other animal consumption.

It also doesn't have to work for everyone, just for most people. If you 20% of people were vegan, we'd end up with a snowball effect that made the world a better place.

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