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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are so damn backward, and that was the logic it raises the question of why we continue to ignore lgbtq and that was the logic it raises the question of why we continue to ignore lgbtq. (It repeats)

The views of my phone do not reflect my own views.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you open to find a house you showed me ages and a house you showed me ages and a house you showed me ages and a house you showed me ages and a house you showed me ages

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Femboys(,) are you going to be in the office tomorrow morning?

Edit: pretty much this - https://youtu.be/MDDukLyXY-M

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the best things to go through.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the ones in charge of deciding the speakers decided to not let them work

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going to be able to get the covid vaccine? For the next week or so I can get it out of the office in the morning but I don't know if it will be a good time for me to come over and get it out of the way and I can get it out of the way and I can get it out of the way...

Punctuation added by me. I do not have access to the covid vaccine, but I do suggest all USA femboys (and everyone else) get vaccinated asap as I worry all vaccines may be illegal in the USA soon.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow morning at six?

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you going for a walk with me today?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

The femboys are you into a good little pet and list of things you can do with you and your family.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you into the world to get the money to get the money from the bank account to the bank account and you can earn money from your bank account.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

femboys are a great place for the degree of experience in the world?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Femboys are a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few years and a few (I think my keyboard has Alzheimer's)

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Femboys are the same as the US

.... Currently in crisis?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago

... looking really vulnerable rn

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are good at the bottom and I think 🤔

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Therefore you are

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the best people in the world

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you gonna be able to get the ball rolling?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The femboys of my life

E: oh i did the wrong start lol

Femboys are you

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow morning?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the only one I have in mind

So true lmao

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are panicked

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are you ok to come to the shop for a coffee and a coffee and a drink with a friend who is more than welcome to come to the house and I can do it for you and you can do it for me and I can do it for you and you can do it for me and

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

damn it layed out the entire date

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago

Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world we live in today

[–] [email protected] 31 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If I try to do a longer one, I get

Femboys are a good idea

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago

both true ^-^

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Femboys are odd

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

femboys are not a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that they are a problem in the sense that...

what

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the most popular ones out there.

Femboys are not just about being able to be a good person.

Huh... Neat

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

Femboys are valid

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are the most important part in this conversation IMO. Femboys are a very good example of how the world is a lot better than the world. Femboys are not as great in their day and age and they can only do it because it was the first thing in your life.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago

FUTO keyboard btw

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Femboys are in den meisten Ländern die größte Stadt der Erde.

(In English: „femboys are in most countries the biggest city on Earth.“)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

femboys sind die denn gespeichert

[–] [email protected] 46 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Femboys are.

(I don't and have never used autocorrect on this phone, but I can still affirm their existence)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

femboys are you going to be able to get the WiFi working on the computer ones or the other one of the other things I have to do to help you with the other one of the other things that are on the way home and I can get it to you that you don't have to do it with the other people and I don't know what to do you have to be in the same room as well as a little bit of the other things

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are the best for me

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Femboys are a Human to the freezer.

So glad The Freezer has accepted them

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

how many femboys are in poland

Wtf?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are you doing today I hope you have a great day

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Femboys are we going out for lunch tomorrow

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